Aren't there ANY guys out there not looking for either one night stands or marriage???

Is that really all there is? Either get sleazy offers right in the first message, or else get some cheesey poems and a marriage proposal? All I'm looking for is someone to spend a bit of time with, have a couple of dates, many something permanent, maybe not, just having some fun (and no, not necessarily THIS kind of fun!)

Sorry, I just needed this rant right about now...

Rant away!!!! Its fine!!!

The answer is:

Not many, on this site, but still yes.

I was neither the one nor the other, while I was still looking.

Yikes!!! I am on my way

omg thats very scary isn't it!!! i know exactly what you mean... i hate sleaziness its awful!!

i know EXACTLY what you mean..gets really boring!..

Well I had 35 messages last week, 30 for for 'sexy fun' 2 were marriage proposals and the others asid 'fancy a chat' come on guys, you must be able to come up with something original and inspiring surely?????????

wow Exmouthlady....35 messages.... i am lucky if i get five....... and ye..... you got it..... all asking for sex!!

Awwwwwwwwwww Trace, I can honestly say you are welcome to them, not one inspired me and def not the ones after 'sexy fun'

eeeekkkksssss no ta....... just a normal message would be so nice
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I know what you mean Trace, even 'fancy a chat' doesnt really spur much thought or inspiration