You can't just rely on one method of meetin poeple, yes this site helps, it's why i'm ere as well, but you av to get out and about and yes you put your heart and feelings on the line whenever you choose to get to sum1 close, i'm not heartless by any means, it's just life unfortunatly.

hmmm. I'd think I'd rather have a few messages to and from whom I'd meet. and then go out to a pub or club or something where we can have a laugh and a good time, then see what happens from there.

I must admit that you are probably the first person that I have replyed a message to, I am also looking for someone decent, but you will have to discard the looks because the picture that I am uplaoding hasn't been approved yet. but if you would still like to get in touch by all-means.

I consider myself to be a decent gyy but words on a screen wont tell ya that

i would consider myslf a decent man i am looking for a companion i have irish desent and my daughter was born in traliee. i lived in england now a few years and have nt yet found that special someone i brought up my 4 children from a young age now they are older and flown the nest i hope to go back to ireland in the near future.
i am a true romanic just looking for happiness and i hope to find it on here

Decent HMMMMMM! I'm polite well mannered got a wicked sense of humour! I don't send smutty pics just a polite borin old email! perhaps i'm usin the wrong approach! have a look at some of the other threads! somehow we always get back to the same topic! Girls we are out here the dorks and s**theads of the world are givin us a bad name! try replying to the dweeb like messages and you might unearth a real diamond!

well i dont know how far yall have been lookin but what cought my eye is the guy talkin about young lads havng fun well im am young but i can promise just by talkin with me any woman on here would swear im atleast 30 im 19 and if anyone is lookin for someone to just talk with give me a holler on yahoo my screen name is cajun_country_ray17.

i dont look at it as finding my "mr right" i look at it as a way of making new friends, and then u never know as a friendship grows one of those friends might just be what you,v been looking for all along ,,the word is "chemisty"if thas ther then thats a good start,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,

A little bit of sugar, a touch of spice! mix well with some naughty but nice! blend till right and then?
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This guy is liscensed to chill, and thrill, but the opportunities to thrill are rather less than anticipated!!!!

It is hard finding that someone who is genuine and honest on sites like this but their are people there its just a matter of luck if you find that someone you can be happy talking to and maybe down the line much more...
Im a little new to this type thing as I havent tried it but I'd like to think that if someone wanted to chat I would get to know them,then make my mind up through talking to them. thats ways in which I feel is a genuine person,someone who will find out as much as they can about a person before judging them whatsoever and if you like them then its great!
If your on here to be stupid and just to laugh at people then thats arrogance and isnt what makes a genuine person.
But thats just my view people can tell me im wrong or whatever they want.

In response to the topic:

Probably not. We're all half decent though, is that ok?

50% should be good enough! it would give you a gcse in dating
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This guy is liscensed to chill, and thrill, but the opportunities to thrill are rather less than anticipated!!!!

Eccles, you are a legend buddy! Nice to see there's still some characters about the place. Concerning the honest, genuine guys, i would say the majority of those are quite shy and like to hide in their shell. Common sense really, we tend not to be overly exhuberant as we have nothing to hide or lie about. It still doesn't stop me being travolta's twin brother on the dancefloor every saturday night

What's life without a laugh and a giggle eh, Eccles?