This is probably one of the big misunderstandings of these kind of websites. Not that you are not right about most men loking for love here like on other sites.. I know this from all my female friends (and nothing more than friends) who tell me about the misfortune beeing a woman and getting ten email a day with such inspiring texts as 'hey cutie' (thats all..) or 'hey wanna cam'. Dont need to tell you girls, you know what I am talking about..

As for me, I am lokkng mainly for CONTACTS - I meet a lot of women of this site, but had a flirt with only one, and we did NOT sleep together. I am simply searching people you can decently talk to and basing on this, have a nice walk on the beach with, a nice drinks. If then, you find each other attractive and want to see again, you might start real flirting and then, there might be love. DOnt want to be misunderstood - I love love, but I am always looking who I am doing it with, and even if its in a casual relationsship, this one should be serious.

But then, again, I experienced that mostly, as soon as you start dating a girl fr a few times, SHE wil most of times be the one making the firt moves towards love...

Could it be, ladies? that you would want to sleep with a guy if he is not interested so much in love - but will feel bad about a guy who wants it and shows it ??

This brings us to the ever lasting theory: all actually want the same - only that women and men have another 'structure' in their heads... The women want love over detours, like hiddenbehind a few dates, a few times talking comfortabl at the fireplace hehe... The man the same, just that he (or at least some of them) shows it earlier..

NO?...

Or what are you, the author of this topic, looking for? Did you date a lot and how did it go?..

Fred

I'd settle for some gentle fingering.

love is Overrated,
the Party is in Making Love

If you fancy a FB drinking game, use the Guestbook feature for any female poster who dares show off a little extra flesh. Every time you see a post from a knuckle-dragging mis-apprehending barely-literate troglodyte along the lines 'hey u sexi' or 'wuz your MsN(sic)?' have yourself a swig. You'll be on the floor long before your laptop battery starts to run out...

So in answer to the OP - yes. Don't tar us all with the same brush!

i just want to snuggle up on a sofa

Awwwww how sweet, goodluck with that

He's lying and just saying what he thinks you want to hear! What he really wants is to go to the pub and watch football with his mates, get a kebab on the way home, completely ignoring the dinner he's expected you to have made for him, then he wants you to follow him to bed and have a drunken quickie. No foreplay either! Or maybe he's actually telling the truth...
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Vidi Vici Veni

I got in touch with my feminine side. She emailed me back saying if I ever contacted her again she'd call the police.

that is all i want. love isnt everything in the world. id rather go fishing than have 5 mins of hows your father. but im not saying i dnt like going down da pub and watching da footie but id rather go for affection than looks e.g naiomi campbell i wouldnt touch her with a barge pole!!

This is extremely sexiest! i dont like you lot now!