surprisingly i've met a few who are NOT instantly wanting to get into your underwear, all have become fantastic friends and others more...
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When I die, I want to go peacefully like my Grandfather did, in his sleep -- not screaming, like the passengers in his car.

First post here so go easy on me.....

Well I'm not looking for JUST a shag... I want to meet somebody nice who I get on with and want to be with, and then sex will inevitably follow on from that.

Or am I missing a vital point somewhere here?

Carl

Men are utterly at the mercy of women. We are beggars, and the
saying goes, beggars can't be choosers, but we can choose where
to beg.

It's a sorry state of affair the way the dating game has gone. It
really is the fault of a few bad apples (maybe 9/10) of men
treating women like meat, and from that experience of men
have a preconception about men.

Women, bearing in mind the power is in your hands.

Me, I like to treat a women with respect! When I go on a date, respect a women's choice if they want sex, a casual date or just want to be good freinds!

To be frank, iam a guy and I am after sex other wise what would be the point. Does this mean you ladies dont want to have sex, if thats the case then what on earth are you after, holding hands!!! grow up ladies we are not in 3rd grade any more lets get some shagging going and we will all be less stressed from life and we all will be al ot more happier Im sure.

Could some tell me whats wrong with wanting a shag, dont females enjoy sex too?

The thing is if a women wants sex she can go out and get it....

If she approaches enough men one of them is gonna say yes....

Where as guys 'advances' have to be accepted by the female (otherwise it would be rape)

Most women dont need to come onto DATING websites to find a shagging partner......most pubs or clubs will do

do you see where I'm going.....?

If i just wanted to get laid I would go out and get laid.......

But thats not for me I want to meet someone and connect with them on more than just a physical level
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hey
i am not on here for sex either, but u do relise girls r on here for the same thing, of course guys always are and alot more of them then girls.. but ive been asked by girls on here to hook up right away and have said ''no thanks''
being australian its very easy to go out in the uk and get a shag anyway, but the birds im going to meet arnt my cup of tea so thats why i use this site.. so yes there r guys here who r geniune

This is an age old debate