there must be some men out there who are not just after one thing most of the men who have messaged me want sex cam or want to strip off

Yes I am. I am not just after a shag for the obvious reason that I would only get one shag very rarely if I was. But if I get a relationship then I will get regular sex several times a week. That is why I want to stay with a woman I meet.

ive started sumthing now havent i with my poll lol

I'm not just after a shag. I wouldn't mind, but thats not all I'm here for (if it was I'd be sorely disappointed).

blimey it looks like all the other men are just after sex

I've found much the same catherine. They pretend to be all nice to start off with then as soon as you get chatting on msn they try n cyber the sad fuckers
I rarely answer messages these days, prefer to just chat on the forums.

ive notiec that with men i found one nice one thats genuine

not after sex
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really u must be the 3 rd person so far thats sed that on ere

nope not me i found one who wasnt just after that it's just sifting through the idiots which is hard

There are a lot of men who do use the internet just for finding sex, or free live porn, more so than women, I think it's safe to say. Also safe to say a fair few of them are married or involved (I'm a member of a few mums' sites and other member are always finding evidence of their other halves getting up to this sort of thing).

Maybe you're 'their type'! I personally seem to attract really old guys and really short guys! Am always getting messaged by men who are about 57 and/or 5ft 2.

Don't lose heart though it takes all sorts, and anyway, if they suddenly disappeared I think I'd kinda miss all those messages that start, "r u horny tonite".

Wouldn't you?!

Hi,

I am not here for sex, I am looking for people to go out with and have a great time/laugh and later on see what happens(relationships).

Inevitably in all relationships(well most) you will end up having sex I guess

Jon

One would hope so anyway haha