Many people think that it is! What do you think?

Funny you should say that... I logged on this morning to a mail saying "If youre getting married then what do you want from this site?"

Well the truth is, I was here when I was single and I made friends, its also an option for your profile... so thats just it.... to make friends and keep the ones I've already got.... and also I am now addicted to this discussion forum LOL

Hey dude, your well within your rights to be here, salute!

no i dont think its bad to be on this site if you are married

No ur not wrong at all , do what u want just be honest about it

It's not wrong if you're just looking for friends.

Nope, not wrong so long as your other half knows and you don't deceive people.

not wrong.

Just as long as you're wife isnt working 18 hour days and your at home on the interent trying to entice young girls with a chocolate hob nob.


honesty.

it is the best policy

(unless you're an MP of course, then lie your bollocks of and still keep your job)
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Always forgive your enemies; nothing annoys them so much.

Yes what goes around cums around

If you have a wife i hope she doin the same

how will that make you feel

if she cheatin on u cheat on her, if not bad man what goes aound comes aound.

i had a guy mytherin me on here an after a while he told me he had girl was wantin to cheat on her with me. i told him chance an i hope shes scrwin around on him . he was so upset that the table could be turned.

i always treat people how i want to be treated

no way, if you love her then you wouldnt need to do this. you have to ask yourself would i be happy if she was on the site chatting to guys, answer is probably no

If you are here strictly to make friends it needs to be posted on profile, and leave it at that, cuz there are some of us that are here to make friends and other things, but if you are here for another reason, then that is being a jerk, my opinion

well funny story from the site i have been in which is based in my country (no advert here right)
there are forums and jornals for anybody on the site to express themself and active members got to know each other there, not only on the msg system , i got to know dating site after i have serious relationship and i'm now so married and keep telling people about that, they dont mind me taking hubby to meet them sometimes (such as badminton meeting, movie day or maybe cool party)
good thing = i make a lot of good friends there , we actually met , had parties and lots fun..its like kind of association...and a little therapy, when you are lonely and getting sick about insane people around you, internet is the easiest way to get to know people cause we dont actaully say hi to the strangers on the street all the time, do we?

uncool thing = some people are saying its so bad for married persons to be on dating website, okay why do they say that if we have told on the page clearly that we are looking for only friends, so dont send any perv text to us and hope for a shag ,i know the word marriage just turns them off and then moaning why the heck these married people be here for...

and i dont have to talk about human right, right!

ps. i was not that serious just dislike the way people judgging the others like this..

Take no notice of what others think but why ask this question in the first place, is not a seed of un-ease about things! For all the free thinking and its your humane rights people, we do need to have some moral fibre left in our society because - well imagine honestly if we all did what we wanted without considering others. However I am sure that as long as you are happy with the decision, and its your head that hits that pillow to sleep, good luck sir

funny how virtually eveyone agree a common sense answer to a common sense question ~ it;s the unscrupoulous MEN & WOMEN here thta would't be reading this forum!

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stevie

this sit aint just 4 datin it can be 4 socialising as well so ther nothin wrong atal with it cheers