We get abused and used hard... A mans peak is 18 - 25, a older woman gets a hold of you, that's it. They like to have stamina which keeps on going beyond... I heard that you start losing energy when your older, but that's just what I heard, so no offense to anyone out there! =)

Probably younger girls feel more secure with older guys, like they can protect them more, maybe it could be like a fatherly figure type thing. Of course there are many more things that can be added. How mature people are should be one, you don't see many mature couples out there, I see couples fight like parent and child. It's sad... anyways, that was my 2 cents...

I do like older women but never been with a girl my age or under (not too under lmao), I wonder what it's like. I might aswell add, I don't even feel the need for a relationship that I would have to slit my wrists, it would be nice but at the end of the day, it's a distraction towards anyones goals. Relationships take alot of time. Obviously man wouldn't mind if he met a hot mamacita that makes his mouth water!

I've mostly ended up going out with women older than me. The largest gap was 5-6 years, although I have ended up being mildly intimate with women a bit older than that, but I guess that doesn't count. That's not by any kind of conscious choice I've made, it's just been the way it's usually been. None of them have ever felt particularly weird about it, although I have had the odd question from male and female friends when the gap's been in the 4-6 yr older region.

I didn't know how old the woman was until I got back to reality from that bottle of vodka, damn, much bigger gap, 24 year gap 2 years ago lmao =) Never would of thought she was that age tho =/

I LOVE younger men!! I've never had a boyf who was older than me, and only one who was my age. All the rest have been younger.

no absoulotly not

I don't care either way as long as they're nice. That said, I do usually end up with younger men, it's not on purpose, I just seem to attract them. I, for one, am not complaining.


(It is a bit odd, though, as a parent of older children. I do think one of the worst things that went through my mind once was, "Christ, you were 5 when I gave birth for the first time." THAT was slightly scary.)

I think maturity plays a big part in the matter - some guys simply cannot handle older women so in most cases she must take the lead and show the way to adulthood lol - i see nothing wrong with it - go for it ladies younger man need you

I guess being a younger guy I naturally like the older woman because of the whole experience thing...

Good luck to you silverfish, go for it I say.

Theres nothing wrong with prefering younger guys I was married to one for 17 years, breaking up had nothing to do with the age difference.

If it makes you happy then do it, lifes too short, enjoy.
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I tend not to get involved with younger guys who are too young as i think that i would want to mother them. Having said that i guess if i found the right guy then age wouldn't matter.

Seriously now, I just looked - the original post on this thread was a lad who was 19 wanting to know if girls 20-25 thought he was too young!!!
I am gobsmacked yet again cuz I would have honestly put them in the same age bracket - but then I was with a much older man at that age, so what would I know?
I'm talking from a nearly-42 yrs old woman's point of view - maybe when I was 25 I might have thought a lad of 19 was too young? I don't recall ever thinking such thing though, it just simply didnt happen. (Except when I was 15 I was sweet on a boy of 17, but that was all really).

Things may have changed over the years, i'm not really sure about that.

I was 27 when I married my ex husband who was then 18, we were going out for 6 months before we tied the knot, it lasted 17 years & I didn't feel any older than him, the age difference was never a problem.
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