*sighs*

Is it really so difficult to find a guy to spend my time with?

Three months ago I broke up with my boyfriend that walked all over me several times. Since then I've wanted nothing more than a decent generous guy to spend my time with that knows how to treat a girl properly. I have had no such luck, and deep down I'm beating my self up for breaking it off with my boyfriend because it seems I can't do much better.

I know I'm only 17 but I am mature for my age, my last two boyfriends have been in their late twenties with their own place and I enjoyed being taken care of and spending time with them. But even so they lived in London & I only got to see them at weekends and eventually the distance became a problem as it does.

I just want to be able to enjoy my weeks as I did my weekends. Someone to come home to and moan about my day at work hehe.

If you are in your 20's. In a similar situation can you please email me as I may forget to check this.

Or email me at *No personal email addresses please*.

Please only serious emails.

Thank you!! Hopefully hear from some body soon

LY Hayley louise

P.s sorry if my spellings horrendous on my mobile (stupid predictive text) xxx

Hayley - your post will soon be edited to remove your email address sweety. x

at sorry I didn't realize it couldn't be on my post. I shall remove when I get home I just tried on my mobile but can't scroll down enough

You can change your profile so that the site e-mails you when you get a message - that should help you to remember to check.

*bbones enters the thread with a cheshire cat grin*

*Ed duly adds email address to contacts*

They're right, you know.

I get that you're feeling down at the moment about your break up, but try to remember why you broke up, rather than regretting it. Otherwise you only end up going round in circles getting back together and breaking up again.

At 17, you have years of meeting all sorts of guys ahead of you - I'm sure you will find someone who is great for you, but I don't think you should necessarily be looking for such a specific kind of guy. You rule out too many others.

Oh, and three months really isn't that long to be single. Just be patient

Hhhmmm, t'is really hard to say anything positive, or not to sound a right bitch.....but I can only say how I read this, the OP.
This is how it comes across:
You are only 17 so either still living at home or not long left.
You are looking for a man who is generous, and you like to be taken care of.
To my mind that opening statement shouts, "I'm looking for a replacement for my daddy." which quite frankly does not bode well for any man.
Yeah I know I should probably keep my mouth shut but you are younger than my sons so I can take the bossy mother approach -- stop trying to find a 'generous' man to take care of you blahblah, stand on your own ruddy feet awhile, get out there and go to college, get a job, whatever but dont even think about being 'taken care of' by a 'generous' man until you have learnt that this world and the successful relationships in it are built around equality of the things like generosity and taking care of each other. It's 50/50.
Get out there, have fun, and for goodness sake stop wanting to saddle yourself with a ruddy doormat, which quite frankly is the only type of man who's going to be willing to treat you like a little princess.
Ok, nag over!

u must be the most ignorant girl on dis site distance dont mean fuck all love n u kno it u just tryin to be awkward like innit,n well up 2 u if u talk or watever innit but dont moan bout guys treatin u like shit if a decent guy comes along n u dont wanna kno like innit love!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!