Personally I think you just aren't looking hard enough where you live, maybe you've just been mixing with the wrong people. There's variation everywhere. Also your English...well there's words there that shouldn't be and knowing what you mean we can decipher it but it doesn't make for easy conversation. And conversation would be 98% of such a long distance relationship, maybe have a look closer to home =].

Also maybe people arent checking your profile because of the style you got goin on. A light suit with a dark top..and then even lighter jeans? Damn son.