Well whether is flirt or cheating.

I am wondering are there many men that forgive it.

Would he go back to her to mend their hearts.

ive had two of my ex girlfriends go as far as cheating on me and i have forgiven them, yet i know some people who dump at the slightest smell of flirtation.

i think it just depends on the person, personally, as long as i can tell that she still loves me at the end of the day, ill forgive anything.

Oh you are so sweet young English man.

So young and already so wise.

You go boy.

Dont think i will comment on this one .............

So many factors to take into account...

Is the flirting jokey or serious? There's flirting in an over the top and jokey way, then there's a type of eye contact and body language that indicates real desire.

Is the flirting in front of the partner? Is there consistent flirting with one person?

I've had girlfriends who are naturally flirty and meant nothing by it, it was just who they were. That seemed to bother other people more than it bothered me. I'd occasionally get people who didn't know us well coming up to me and telling me that they wouldn't let their girlfriends run around behaving like that!

On the flip side, I've also had a girlfriend who normally wasn't flirty at all, but suddenly started flirting with a particular friend in what I considered a 'serious' manner. The next time we all went out in a group, I quite publicly paid special attention to the friend's girlfriend and had a blazing row with my girlfriend when we got home.

She never wanted us to go out with that particular couple after that.

If the flirting is serious and done in front of your partner, that's really just a way of publicly humiliating your partner. I know there are people out there that get off on that stuff, but not for me thank you, life's complicated enough!

unfortuately it probably is cheating.. i had an ex and she knew i was considering cheating, i didn't hear much from her after that..unfortunately...

I am undecided as to whether flirting can be considered cheating; I guess it depends on context, language and what the ultimate intention is.

As far as cheating goes, if someone did it to me I’d be off quicker than last night’s supper after a dose of Picolax

I don't consider flirting as cheating, but then i also don't consider kissing as cheating - within reason.

Cheating in my eyes is when 'she' is in someone else's bed ( so to speak ) and not 'ours'.

I don't forgive cheating - if someone feels the need to cheat there is something wrong with the relationship.

That, is my opinion on the matter.
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I don't think its cheating. Flirting isn't cheating.
Flirting with intent to cheat is a totally different matter. I love harmless flirting ! It's fun and its uplifting u know. When i was in a relationship after a while u just do the same thing say the same things even though u love each other but i went out with girlfriends and loved it when a guy gave me attention u kno, hasd a little chat, knew where we stood, he actually had a girlfriend too, he was just in for a good time and that doesn't mean me bouncin up and down on his bed ! I think its healthy to have a flirt. but thats just my opinion.

I was on here when i was in a relationship because i had friends on here. i wouldn't reply to messeges being sent, i'd purely go on the chatroom and have a giggle. but it depends on the person, does a drunk kiss mean a cheat or do u have to have love with somebody? its a whole new world of questions that could be asked

Well I never implied that flirting and cheating is right.

But the bottom line is if the woman flirted and/or cheated and she recognized that she was wrong. I am talking about the guy forgives her for the mistake.

Guys keep in mind something, sometimes the woman does not know if the official guy will stay with her, an then that's when she keeps some (or one) card(s) under her sleeves, specially when they are still getting to know each other, in the beggining for the relationship (a few months?). It's self defense.

But again, it's so wrong flirting specialy in front of other people, that's double disrespect.

But anyway, don't you think that if the guy really loves her madly and misses her badly, doesn't he go back to her. So what prevails the pride or the love.

His stupid pride or his wonderful love.

And another thing, sometimes the guy just have false assumption that she flirted and/or cheated on him. You have to give her the benefits of the doubt.