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Home >> Dating >> Is confidence the key?
07.07.2006, 12:08 quote
| almostpurrrfect wrote: |
| i never get approached by guys wanting to know me... i do get approached by guys wanting to screw me... in one way or another... but i have yet to meet a genuine guy... although in saying that,... sod's law applies to me so if i did find a genuine guy i would probaby blow it altogether. |
Same here.
07.07.2006, 12:19 quote
just throwing an idea out there.... not sure really how you would define these things anyway... but...
has it got maybe to do with dressing "sexy"
and not dressing "intresting"?
in life we tend to reap what we sow... not only personally but as a group too...
i try and live in my own group! 
07.07.2006, 12:24 quote
| mrchappy wrote: |
| just throwing an idea out there.... not sure really how you would define these things anyway... but...
has it got maybe to do with dressing "sexy" and not dressing "intresting"? in life we tend to reap what we sow... not only personally but as a group too... i try and live in my own group! |
I hear what you are saying Mrchappy but! I think the way you dress is reflected with what confidence you have within!
07.07.2006, 12:41 quote
| flowerangelaura wrote: |
| ..Here's a question for guys:
What makes you think a woman dresses 'sexy'? |
How do you mean, do you mean what do we consider sexy?
07.07.2006, 12:44 quote
| Jimney wrote: |
|
How do you mean, do you mean what do we consider sexy? |
Kind of. The way a woman dresses. I also wouldn't mind knowing what men do consider sexy....because guys confuse the hell out of me most of the time.
07.07.2006, 12:53 quote
Well for me its not about how they dress or anyting, If im atracted to someone i tend to find the way they act sexy. i find confidence n cheeryness v sexy. A woman could be dressed up to the nines but if she acts like a b*tch, it is a big turn off
07.07.2006, 13:34 quote
| Quote: |
| I also wouldn't mind knowing what men do consider sexy....because guys confuse the hell out of me most of the time. |
Well now there is a memorable comment and I'm sure the male members will be quick to respond that women are just as confusing.
I don't think every guy finds the same things to be sexy about a woman. Being confident about yourself is a start but you also need to look approachable there is nothing worse than a woman who won't even look at you unless you look like Jean-Claude Van Damme.
I prefer women who doesn't plaster themselves with make-up but knows how to dress nice. Guys will always look at women who wear very little clothing when they go out but then you have seen all they have to offer, if everything was on display in the window would it make you want to go into the shop?
07.07.2006, 13:40 quote
ok i am talking extremely loosely here and maybe just as an example... i know i am dicing a bit here, sorry its just for the point of discussion...
i should have been more explicit....
note* i am talking about women as a whole maybe especially in the media too, absolutely not any individuals...
maybe and i really do mean maybe:
a fair number of women may dress in a come and screw me way....
as apposed to an interesting way...
a come screw me way COULD BE thrusting one's behind out by wearing high heels, Dying hair blond, womens is hair lightens when they are firtile... Adornment symbolising sexual behaviour, like studs and chains... Making your skin look flushed by wearing blusher, we all know wen people get flushed skin.... etc etc....
In fact I am surprised there isnt more of a frenzy....!!! 
Please have some sympathy on us we are a little suseptable to this stuff...
07.07.2006, 13:50 quote
| mrchappy wrote: |
| ok i am talking extremely loosely here and maybe just as an example... i know i am dicing a bit here, sorry its just for the point of discussion...
i should have been more explicit.... note* i am talking about women as a whole maybe especially in the media too, absolutely not any individuals... maybe and i really do mean maybe: a fair number of women may dress in a come and screw me way.... as apposed to an interesting way... a come screw me way COULD BE thrusting one's behind out by wearing high heels, Dying hair blond, womens is hair lightens when they are firtile... Adornment symbolising sexual behaviour, like studs and chains... etc etc.... In fact I am surprised there isnt more of a frenzy....!!!
Please have some sympathy on us we are a little suseptable to this stuff... |
Do you not think that it could also have the adverse affect of one appearing confident! Do you not think that they may try to hide and cover up there lack of confidence by appearing confident on the outside in their choice of clothes?? And there presentation! Errrr does that make sense???
07.07.2006, 13:52 quote
yes it makes complete sense and could be a bit of a vicious circle...
guess we need to be more sympathetic too... thanks for the great insight!!!!!!!!
07.07.2006, 13:56 quote
Your welcome ..... i suppose if i was honest here!! then i could say that i am speaking from experiance .... again i blush!!!
07.07.2006, 14:10 quote
thats a lovely thing to admit! and shows just how powerful honesty can be I think....
at the end of the day behavious seem to be recipricol so men have to be considered just as guilty in the whole "mess"... 
what was this topic about again????
and i thought i was the blonde one!!!! Only kidding!!! 
07.07.2006, 14:17 quote
gosh I was so engrossed I didnt realise we were still on topic... I am glad somone was following the plot!!! (it certainly wasnt me!)
so if we were all more confident in ourselves then we would behave much better toward each other....
and everything would be FAB
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