looking through all the posts i've been involved in and browsed, this seems to be a thread running through the majority of them

Speaking for myself, i find confident women very attractive, specifically the confidence in who they are and to be who they want to be.

What does everyone else think?

I concur.
Confidence is very sexy. However arrogance is not.

Pz

Well I think there is a very fine line between them both. I am pretty confident but have been told that I can come over as 'independent and unapproachable'. Maybe theres a lot to be said for showing a bit of a vunerable or shy side sometimes.
Whilst I find confident men attractive I would be more likely to approach someone quieter and more reserved.
God, this dating milarky is a minefield!

Well I think there is a very fine line between them both. I am pretty confident but have been told that I can come over as 'independent and unapproachable'. Maybe theres a lot to be said for showing a bit of a vunerable or shy side sometimes.
Whilst I find confident men attractive I would be more likely to approach someone quieter and more reserved.
God, this dating milarky is a minefield!

Confidence means alot to me, Im confident, outgoing and can be extrovert at times, I must say that tho most men find it attractive they do also find it intimidating. But to get to know me is to see my softer side. I am attracted to confident men as although I am its nice to have a match. I met a guy once on a first date and he was very shy, I found it hard work and at the end he shook my hand!!!!!!!!!!! Soz but Id rather have to fight him off

Hopefully you wouldnt want to fight me off

Well a girl has to keep her morals you know

Morals? isn't that a meaning to a story? LOL

Hmmm just a wee thought? do you put up much of a fight and for how long

LOL now that really would be telling

Well if she's a Lady, then she will give you you're marching orders or wait until you forfil her criteria.

So either very soon or as long as she chooses.

Wx

I have confidence, but never get approached. Maybe I seem arrogant, as well?!

well my friend a gentleman will always fulfil his ladies criteria to the max