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04.07.2006, 19:19 quote

enigmav3
enigmav3 Joined: 16 Jun 2006 Posts: 22 Location: United Kingdom, England, London
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looking through all the posts i've been involved in and browsed, this seems to be a thread running through the majority of them

Speaking for myself, i find confident women very attractive, specifically the confidence in who they are and to be who they want to be.

What does everyone else think?

 

04.07.2006, 19:28 quote

Anonymous

I concur.
Confidence is very sexy. However arrogance is not.

Pz

 

04.07.2006, 19:36 quote

Anonymous

Well I think there is a very fine line between them both. I am pretty confident but have been told that I can come over as 'independent and unapproachable'. Maybe theres a lot to be said for showing a bit of a vunerable or shy side sometimes.
Whilst I find confident men attractive I would be more likely to approach someone quieter and more reserved.
God, this dating milarky is a minefield!

 

04.07.2006, 19:37 quote

Anonymous

Well I think there is a very fine line between them both. I am pretty confident but have been told that I can come over as 'independent and unapproachable'. Maybe theres a lot to be said for showing a bit of a vunerable or shy side sometimes.
Whilst I find confident men attractive I would be more likely to approach someone quieter and more reserved.
God, this dating milarky is a minefield!

 

05.07.2006, 19:05 quote

Anonymous

Confidence means alot to me, Im confident, outgoing and can be extrovert at times, I must say that tho most men find it attractive they do also find it intimidating. But to get to know me is to see my softer side. I am attracted to confident men as although I am its nice to have a match. I met a guy once on a first date and he was very shy, I found it hard work and at the end he shook my hand!!!!!!!!!!! Soz but Id rather have to fight him off Laughing

 

05.07.2006, 20:12 quote

eccles
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Hopefully you wouldnt want to fight me off Twisted Evil Twisted Evil

 

05.07.2006, 20:23 quote

Anonymous

Well a girl has to keep her morals you know Twisted Evil

 

05.07.2006, 20:55 quote

eccles
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Morals? isn't that a meaning to a story? LOL Twisted Evil

 

05.07.2006, 20:57 quote

eccles
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Hmmm just a wee thought? do you put up much of a fight and for how long malesperm

 

05.07.2006, 21:01 quote

Anonymous

LOL now that really would be telling Twisted Evil

 

06.07.2006, 17:52 quote

Anonymous

Well if she's a Lady, then she will give you you're marching orders or wait until you forfil her criteria.

So either very soon or as long as she chooses.

Wx

 

06.07.2006, 17:54 quote

Anonymous

I have confidence, but never get approached. Maybe I seem arrogant, as well?!

 

06.07.2006, 17:54 quote

eccles
eccles Joined: 23 Jun 2006 Posts: 1298 Location: United Kingdom, England, Somerset
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Cool well my friend a gentleman will always fulfil his ladies criteria to the max Twisted Evil

 

06.07.2006, 17:56 quote

Anonymous

flowerangelaura wrote:
I have confidence, but never get approached. Maybe I seem arrogant, as well?!


That's 'cause I never see you in Notts

Wx

 

06.07.2006, 17:58 quote

Anonymous

whizzer wrote:


That's 'cause I never see you in Notts

Wx


Embarassed

I mean, I get approached by guys that are drunk in bars..But i'd rather be approached by sober men!

 
 
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