I ask this because i consider myself to be a gentleman, im not a big head, as anyone who has seen my previous topic will know i have a disability(eg i cannot walk), every woman i have ever chatted to either online, or in person, or by phone has said im a nice guy, i dont consider myself to be the best looking guy in the world, but i dont think im ugly, i treat women with respect, and when im in a relationship im a one woman man i have never cheated on anyone, yet despite all this i have been single for a long time, so i ask is being a gentleman really all that important to women in general.

Red, I dont think it is the issue of being a gentleman, cuz we all want that from our man. But people are scared of disabilities, scared of the unknown, scared of the truth, scared they will not be able to handle the situation. I have a friend that lost a girlfriend becuz of the same situation and I know it was very hard for him, but he has moved on, true he can walk now, but is still recovering after 2 from all the side affects. You will find someone that will understand there are lots of ways to satisfy a woman physically, mentally, spiritually, and emotionally. I wish you all the luck and happiness you will find. The fates always steps in when you least expect it.
The always caring Aluria

Your most welcome, Dave, hang in there the time will come.
An American Friend, Aluria