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20.04.2008, 18:36 quote

xnjkx

megalone wrote:
xnjkx wrote:
On here yeah. You never know who you're talking to, even with a picture. No picture just worries me, cos there are so many spammers out there. But most important to me is a good opening message. If somebody sends me a good opening message then i become engaged and want to chat to them even if i don't find them physically attractive - though i've yet to find someone on here who is hideously ugly . Bad opening messages and i wont even look at your profile! x


I'll send you a PM with my 'special' opening chat up line then....
It begins 'I think you;ve got a pretty little mouth.....'

Twisted Evil





Please do. I'm interested to see what your opening message would be to someone you liked.. lol give me your best shot and i'll rate you Wink x

 

20.04.2008, 18:40 quote

jeggae

I don't think you should pass judgement on someone you chat to and get on with on a strength of a photo. In my experience pictures do not show if you will be attracted to someone at all.

Its a shame that people, mainly women, can and do miss out on something good because of a photo. But as some women say to me, they are comfortable with missing out. Which seems odd to me.

 

20.04.2008, 18:44 quote

megalone

Okey Dokey, but I am warning you, I won't hold back.......

 

20.04.2008, 18:53 quote

megalone

xnjkx wrote:
Please do. I'm interested to see what your opening message would be to someone you liked.. lol give me your best shot and i'll rate you Wink x


All done, I wanted to write loads more, but ran out of space.
I hope you can take the criticism, it's meant in a nice way, if you ARE feeling spiteful you can alway be a right bitch to me to return the favour.... Wink

 

20.04.2008, 20:13 quote

xnjkx

megalone wrote:
xnjkx wrote:
Please do. I'm interested to see what your opening message would be to someone you liked.. lol give me your best shot and i'll rate you Wink x


All done, I wanted to write loads more, but ran out of space.
I hope you can take the criticism, it's meant in a nice way, if you ARE feeling spiteful you can alway be a right bitch to me to return the favour.... Wink



man you were NICE about me!! i love criticism, but everything you criticised you then countered with a nice point so i now lurve you Smile x

 

22.04.2008, 15:31 quote

cushtyjivin
Joined: 21 Apr 2008 Posts: 6 Location: United Kingdom, England, Lancashire
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i have only just joined no photo yet but i think my profile says it all Wink

 

30.04.2008, 21:31 quote

sc0ttie

cushtyjivin wrote:
i have only just joined no photo yet but i think my profile says it all Wink


It dont say nuffin Rolling Eyes

 

30.04.2008, 22:01 quote

lilacrose

sc0ttie wrote:
cushtyjivin wrote:
i have only just joined no photo yet but i think my profile says it all Wink


It dont say nuffin Rolling Eyes


The name says to me that HE wears a white Saturday Night Fever suit down the Nags Head on a saturday night........Lovely Jubbly!! Twisted Evil

(cant check out the profile, says the page cant be displayed)

Edit: just got a blank page, but i see at the top it says you are in fact a lady........so my apologies, but in my defence, I was only joking! Wink

 

30.04.2008, 22:17 quote

lilacrose

Back on topic - No, a photo isnt important at all when first talking with/approaching by pm to anyone on here.
But, I do insist on seeing a pic AND talking on the telephone before actually meeting. We all gotta play safe, after all.

 

02.05.2008, 15:33 quote

cushtyjivin
Joined: 21 Apr 2008 Posts: 6 Location: United Kingdom, England, Lancashire
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sorry scottie have done a profile dont no why it is a blank page, sorry ......[/quote]

 

02.05.2008, 15:38 quote

cushtyjivin
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to lilacrose yes a am a lady i totally understand were you are coming from with my name, thankgod i dont have a reliant robin lol, the name means good living in romany, thanks for info on profile cant understand what i may have done wrong any advisors out there.

 

02.05.2008, 15:38 quote

cushtyjivin
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to lilacrose yes a am a lady i totally understand were you are coming from with my name, thankgod i dont have a reliant robin lol, the name means good living in romany, thanks for info on profile cant understand what i may have done wrong any advisors out there.

 

02.05.2008, 15:55 quote

sa1lorman
sa1lorman Joined: 06 Apr 2008 Posts: 2101 Location: United Kingdom, England, London
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cushty - it usally takes a day for your pic to appear, it should appear by magic by tomorrow.

Oh, and welcome
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I can't help it!

 

02.05.2008, 16:03 quote

funkychick1
funkychick1 Joined: 19 Apr 2008 Posts: 1769 Location: United Kingdom, England, West Midlands
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slight of topic for the mo ........... Mike that bloody little bug thing on your signature is doing my head in ........... Laughing Laughing

Back on topic, personally, for dating purposes, ( not that i get many of those from here) but yes a picture is important for me ............ hey shoot me...............

 

02.05.2008, 16:23 quote

cheekykev
cheekykev Joined: 11 Apr 2008 Posts: 2066 Location: United Kingdom, Scotland, Glasgow
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I agree..... about that wee bug of sailors Twisted Evil .............and about having a pic on your profile.

 
 
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