Talking on here you dont really get to knows someones personality 100% anyway, and If didnt like the look of them, I wouldnt meet them. Thats NOT me saying I wouldnt meet them coz I think their ugly, or dont take a ''Good'' picture, some people can look creepy even feminine which wouldnt make me attracted to them.

I'm being honest here

This topic will always have different opinions ............ but at the end of the day you have to be attracted to a person physically as well as mentally .......... i know some people arent' very photogenic, i include myself with that remark, and do look better in real life ...... i say this from experience ....... but if they have a pic up at least you have some idea of how they look ....... Like other people have commented on it's the reasons why they dont put a pic up that makes me wonder ...........

I'm not that bothered one way or another whether someone has a pic or not, altho it is nice to see who you're talking to.
I suppose it depends what you're looking for; yes, we all want to find that 'someone', but at the same time it doesn't hurt if you make friends along the way....and who cares what your friends look like!

I care what my friends look like.

I'm not going around with a load of FREAKS.

Shut it meg u just keep shagging the sheep

I'm giving up sheep, and thinking about dabbling in badgers, more fiesty......

Im sorry but am i the only person here who thinks a physical attraction is important ? Call me shallow and i would disagree, i just believe that there needs to be some kind of physical attraction, it might be they are butt ugly but have something in their eyes (apart from my finger heehe) but there still has to be something .... or do you put a bag over their head and cut a hole out to kiss them - and then do you shiver ?????

Im no oil painting and i accept that fair and square, my face doesnt appeal to lots (and theyve had no hesiation in telling me that lol) and likewise in some cases, im not looking for brad pitt (eeewww) but i do look for something in their face that appeals and that i find attractive - Im a face kinda girl, i like faces, i like expressions. How the hell can i do this (bearing in mind we are on a dating site) if theres no pic ?!?!?!?!?

I will await the barrage ...

(cowers in the corner and covers head from the hurlting of objects)

how long does it take for pics to be approved ?

in that case lisa they probably wont put mine up incase it scares every one away