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Home >> Dating >> is a photo important before you talk to someone on here
24.02.2008, 14:53 quote
how important is your photo on here we all have different tastes and want different things from a date or relationship isit not shallow to only talk to people with photos what do you think i will say that the reason ive brought this topic up is that on some occasions the photos can be up to ten years old i once met a women of a dating site who actually put a photo of her mate on here and looked nothing like what she said she did
24.02.2008, 15:41 quote
Maybe I'm shallow, but I'd say that visual attraction is the natural first step to a relationship (if that's what you're looking for).
So yes, for me a photo is a pre-requisite.
tim
24.02.2008, 15:48 quote
I agree with Tim, I think it is important to have your picture on here, I know its not the most important thing but you do have to have that attraction with someone...its not the be all & end all but it certainly helps.......for me anyway, hope that doesnt make me shallow tho, I have chatted to guys without a pic but it is much nicer to put a face to the person whom you are chatting to. ![]()
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24.02.2008, 15:51 quote
I'm not going to put a photo up now I've rejoined, but then I'm no longer using the site for dating. I am strictly here for the forums, and haven't filled in anything beyond the most basic required information.
Besides, nobody wants to see my ugly mug
24.02.2008, 15:52 quote
| baggiebhoy wrote: |
| I'm not going to put a photo up now I've rejoined, but then I'm no longer using the site for dating. I am strictly here for the forums, and haven't filled in anything beyond the most basic required information.
Besides, nobody wants to see my ugly mug |
you aint ugly ya muppet
24.02.2008, 18:01 quote
| Leglover227 wrote: |
if your here for a date, ..get a pic up, ..nuff said ![]() |
I'll second that
24.02.2008, 21:09 quote
I don't think it matters all that much.
If you don't have a photo, women don't reply to you because you haven't got a photo. If you have got a photo, they don't reply to you because you don't look like Brad Pitt.
No difference in outcome.
24.02.2008, 21:10 quote
| Moose666 wrote: |
| I don't think it matters all that much.
If you don't have a photo, women don't reply to you because you haven't got a photo. If you have got a photo, they don't reply to you because you don't look like Brad Pitt. No difference in outcome. |
Pains me to say it but your right to some extent Moose.
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24.02.2008, 21:12 quote
Not everyone goes by looks alone........ ![]()
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24.02.2008, 21:16 quote
| LittleVixen wrote: |
| Not everyone goes by looks alone........ |
No, just the vast majority.
24.02.2008, 21:32 quote
| baggiebhoy wrote: | ||
No, just the vast majority. |
Yes, like 99.5%
24.02.2008, 21:33 quote
| Moose666 wrote: | ||||
Yes, like 99.5% |
Nah, at least 99.75
24.02.2008, 21:34 quote
| Moose666 wrote: | ||||
Yes, like 99.5% |
Well! they are not worth bothering with then.....
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24.02.2008, 22:00 quote
I reckon that it is pretty shallow to go by looks alone, a picture IS nice to see on a profile cos it helps to know that they are not a Nigerian or summat, but I don't think I could really fall for anyone based on just a picture or two.
When I browse through the pictures on the main site, I don't think to my self "Why is she still single?".
But, the more I use these forums, the more I tend to think to myself how odd it is that YOU are all single!
I can see attractive qualities in (most of) the people here that a photo could never show, and those qualities are the ones that really matter in life.
I could give names and details, but it would probably be better to say nowt....
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