hi beutiful angel i need u and i love u this is my mail *no email addresses * and this my no *no phone numbers please* am in barbados okay


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hi beuty i believe in love okuquote="Bliss23"]You believe in fate too, blu4u? [/quote]

My idea of a decent guy is someone who is not afraid to be themselves sexually, emotionally or physically, someone 2 respect n who will respect me and some one who will make me feel secure enough to wanna settle down n f**k them n only them4 life. (oh N um one i cld picture having babies with!!)
But I doubt il see that in this life time nowadys its all me, me , me n no one got time to get u kno each other properly, everyone jus wants to hump (whether dry humping or not) n i must admit at times in the past i bin a t*at n used ppl 4 love but that aint my bag any more baybee. Just want a proper relationship with sum one who can communicate in my body language xx

Shit, can anyone tell me if there is an on-line translator thats does text-speak?


See? I AM getting old!

I am sure there are plenty of decent people to be found, it does involve looking. Too often people will spend too much attention to the surface veneer of the car a person drives, have they the latest mobile phone etc. These things are superficial, yes it matters that someone will put in an effort, but as has already been pointed out in this thread that also goes for the way you have written your piece. It looks like you "aint bovvered". The way you wrote almost seems aggressive, and puts the blame entirely on others without maybe thinking that it is your personality that attracts the people that you have so far had relationships with. Sometimes trying too hard or wanting so much can make a person appear not as they would usually be, maybe this is where you are at the moment. I wish you luck and hope you find happiness soon because I do believe you really want it. I send you a big cyber hug, and say relax a bit and what you want will happen one day. Remember the important things when looking, honesty, can you laugh together, enjoy the simple things like a walk on a windy day. Good luck Blu.

My answer si the original question .......... at this precise moment in time .......... would be yes. I hope someone will change my mind sometime soon...........

im negative bout finding the right person because of past experiences, I am a really open but sensitive person and i cnt help but want the best 4 myself, trust is something to be earnt but i tend to give ppl a certain amount of trust when i meet them and I get relly hurt when they break it (as we all do I suppose?)
Anyway, I hav been thinking bout the replies some have you hav posted and Im sort of coming to the conclusion that there are good ppl out there and I suppose if I concentrate on things like uni and work and family and friends I can focus on something other than being single! its not all i think about but i feel that its a nagging feeling, like im somehow not equal to other ppl in my life cos I dnt hav a partner?! how sad is that?

You are equal to other people blu4u.

And I know where your comming from over trust, you just have to step back from letting feelings rule.

You can get through life without someone, I have, so its do-able, as long as you have good family, good music and the occaisional dance, then the quiet periodes without someone can be endurable.

You are worth as much as anyone else, don't let past experiences put you off. It is a big world and it can take a little time to find what you need. Hang on in there, keep your eyes open and take hold of the chance when it comes. You do sometimes have to take a chance, and yes you may get hurt again, but be willing to try. Take care Blu and good luck, Roo.

Yes of coarse there are, I love it when I read the sentance all the decent ones are married..That is laughable, the assholes are married too, think yourself lucky your not tied to one. The problem is that we are too quick to try and find the right one, we all have needs, the way I see it is to have fun along the way, if you feel good with someone, go with it, if love is not there then tell them so, be honest, make sure that your partner is aware that perhaps one day you will leave, one of two things will happen, either they will go or stay with you, if they stay at least you know that they either love you for who you are or they are content with the relationship, life is not a dress rehearsal its the real thing, be happy, you will know when the right person comes along.. if the worst comes to the worst you could always go to the sperm bank to have children