well rather than debating should it shoukdnt it get back on topic or i will decide the result of the debate by locking it myself

ok, a question. What is intellience? how would you describe what intelligence is?

Alternatively don't you think it could be you making the intelligence a factor in why you cannot attract the right woman.

Intelligence is frequently mistaken for arrogance, it seems to me that you are focusing too much on "i'm really clever... yet all the women run miles..!" perhaps it is because you place so much relevance towards how clever you are that women are thinking you are arrogant and not showing any interest.

Slick, did you just reword my summary? lmao!!!!

intelligence cant be based on what a person knows as that is knowledge. intelligence is about a persons reasoning and logic. generally, the more logical a person is, the more intelligent they are,

the ability to comprehend; to understand and profit from experience

http://www.google.co.uk/search?hl=en&lr=&safe=off&defl=en&q=define:intelligence&sa=X&oi=glossary_definition&ct=title

i bet sir clive sinclair didnt go through all this to become a babe magnet lol

Personally I do find intelligence a turn on. I think it is important, perhaps especially for a woman, for your partner to be on a similar intellectual level. I'm sorry if that sounds as if I am arrogant or whatever but I find intellectual conversation stimulating.

Meg x

Hi meg ... no no-ones saying it right or wrong - so your opinions are good

I cant date thick women (pardon the expression). I need someone who at least can hold a half decent conversation about things other than David Beckham and Big Brother.

And yes I am capable of holding a sensible conversation myself believe it or not. It just doesn't happen very often, just ask Fiona.