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01.10.2006, 09:42 quote

Anonymous

if you met someone off this site would you cancel your membership?

bearing in mind that you would lose your login to the forum as well..... would you leave us all behind if you got together with someone from here??

and if you met someone on here and they still kept their account open would you be jealous/suspicious/angry?

 

01.10.2006, 09:44 quote

Anonymous

I wouldn't because of the friends I have made here.

 

01.10.2006, 09:48 quote

Anonymous

almostpurrrfect wrote:
if you met someone off this site would you cancel your membership?

bearing in mind that you would lose your login to the forum as well..... would you leave us all behind if you got together with someone from here??

and if you met someone on here and they still kept their account open would you be jealous/suspicious/angry?


No, I wouldnt...to both questions.

I like reading and posting on internet forums, better then TV.

 

01.10.2006, 10:19 quote

Hungryone
Hungryone Joined: 01 Sep 2006 Posts: 264 Location: United Kingdom, England, Birmingham
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I'd stay, but if it got serious with the girl I would obviously change my profile to make it clear I was taken and I guess I would expect the girl to do the same. Not a control freak just wouldn't like the idea of this girl "being with me" and advertising herself here at the same time.
I actually met someone on a dating site before and while we were together we would chat on the site and laugh at each others 'Inbox' messages

 

01.10.2006, 10:22 quote

Cazzabee
Cazzabee Joined: 05 Jan 2006 Posts: 7257 Location: United Kingdom, Scotland, Fife
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I wouldnt cancel and if the other person was a member too i wouldnt expect them too either. I aint the jealous type so it wouldnt worry me if they were still chatting to peeps they met on here.

 

01.10.2006, 10:31 quote

Anonymous

almostpurrrfect wrote:
if you met someone off this site would you cancel your membership?

bearing in mind that you would lose your login to the forum as well..... would you leave us all behind if you got together with someone from here??

and if you met someone on here and they still kept their account open would you be jealous/suspicious/angry?


Hmm, this is a difficult one Mandy and just yesterday I spoke to someone on here about this very subject.

I don't know if I'd keep mine open or not, possibly, I don't know. I'm not a big tv fan and prefer chatting to folk in places like this. I guess that would be down to what else was going on in my life. Hopefully I wouldn't have to time to be in here often Wink

As to how I'd feel about them continuing, wouldn't bother me provided, as Hungry suggests, they made it clear they were with someone on their profiles. Very Happy

 

01.10.2006, 14:42 quote

Anonymous

dont think i would cancel,would just make a few changes to my profile..if i ever need to that is Laughing

 

01.10.2006, 14:58 quote

Aradon
Aradon Joined: 10 Aug 2006 Posts: 3090 Location: United Kingdom, England, Greater Manchester
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Nah, i'd just do as MP has done, no need to go, this place aint JUST about dating etc, its a fun place to be (mostly) with some pretty decent people, and keeps me occupied while my boss isnt looking LOL
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01.10.2006, 16:47 quote

Anonymous

lol yup i'm still here Very Happy i changed my profile to let people know and so did he, i met some cool friends on here so i still come on to chat and start silly topics Very Happy

 

01.10.2006, 17:27 quote

ladytracexx
ladytracexx Joined: 20 May 2006 Posts: 3465 Location: United Kingdom, England, Cornwall
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Eeerrrr nope! i would not cancel. If they had a problem with it which at the end of the day comes down to trust! then i am afraid they would be long gone up the road...... its all about TRUST!
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01.10.2006, 17:31 quote

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real life relationships take president over online one's so naturally you prioritise accordingly.

and even although it's harmless banter, some folk can be a tad insecure, so depending on the person, I reckon that the best way to circumvent that - introduce them to the site if you think they'd enjoy it.

 

01.10.2006, 17:53 quote

ladytracexx
ladytracexx Joined: 20 May 2006 Posts: 3465 Location: United Kingdom, England, Cornwall
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Letmein wrote:
real life relationships take president over online one's so naturally you prioritise accordingly.

and even although it's harmless banter, some folk can be a tad insecure, so depending on the person, I reckon that the best way to circumvent that - introduce them to the site if you think they'd enjoy it.



And some just may see it as a threat!
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01.10.2006, 21:44 quote

ChiefOHara
ChiefOHara Joined: 11 Feb 2006 Posts: 2853 Location: Ireland, Cork, Cork
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Im afraid ye are stuck with me Very Happy

I enjoy the people on this forum, ye are generally a good laugh so id probably hang about. If i met up with someone i could change the profile i suppose, but i tend not to get messages anyway so why bother

 

01.10.2006, 21:45 quote

Anonymous

Cazzabee wrote:
I wouldnt cancel and if the other person was a member too i wouldnt expect them too either. I aint the jealous type so it wouldnt worry me if they were still chatting to peeps they met on here.



ditto

 

01.10.2006, 21:47 quote

Anonymous

my question was moot for me lol i aint gonna meet anyone from here any time soon.... but if i did....... you lot still wouldn't be rid of me lmaooooo

i'm here for a while i guess.

 
 
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