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10.09.2006, 06:21 quote
| Tinyuk wrote: |
| ...does it put you off wanting to get to know them? |
No way love children
10.09.2006, 07:28 quote
No, it doesn't put me off one bit - after a certain age, it almost becomes expected I think.
10.09.2006, 08:22 quote
I'll be totally honest here. After having 4 of my own and now getting to an age were I can do stuff for me, I'd probably be a little weary of someone with small children. I'm not sure i could do small children all over again.
On the other hand, I know that my having 4 is what puts a lot of guys off. I seem to be at an age where older guys don't want the responsibility again, and younger ones want some of their own.
I think I'd have to be put in a situation to know for sure. When it comes to love, it'd be my heart telling me how to deal with the situation.
10.09.2006, 08:26 quote
| Tinyuk wrote: |
| ...does it put you off wanting to get to know them? |
There are lots of people who today have children. So no i would not be put off. Besides of which i have three of my own. And i do beleive that when you get to a certain age that it is almost inevitable that the majority of people you will meet will have children.
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10.09.2006, 13:47 quote
no way,,,if i met someone that had children, it would not matter to me cuz i have taken a liken to the whole package period..and i would feel the same way for the person liking me since i still have my son
10.09.2006, 14:28 quote
Because i have 2 kids id be more put off if they didnt have kids.
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10.09.2006, 15:08 quote
| injustice wrote: |
| Because i have 2 kids id be more put off if they didnt have kids. |
But it doesn't necessarily follow that having your own kids means you'd be willing to take on someone elses. I know from bitter experience
10.09.2006, 15:24 quote
I've taken on kids in 2 different relationships! in one case it was 4 and the other 3!
It isn't so much the number of children but in both cases the children were teenagers and from each family i encountered one child who opposed me 100% and that can create problems all round! it tests loyalty and puts huge strain on love and the relationship as well!
A few years back i dated a much younger lady, she had 2 kids aged 6 and 3! ok it had its disadvantages but i found that the youngsters were far more able to cope and adapt to a new man in the house and it certainly kept me young!
I've gotta say that kids don't represent a problem for me in fact it often appears that i represent a problem to them!
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10.09.2006, 15:26 quote
| eccles wrote: |
| I've taken on kids in 2 different relationships! in one case it was 4 and the other 3!
It isn't so much the number of children but in both cases the children were teenagers and from each family i encountered one child who opposed me 100% and that can create problems all round! it tests loyalty and puts huge strain on love and the relationship as well! A few years back i dated a much younger lady, she had 2 kids aged 6 and 3! ok it had its disadvantages but i found that the youngsters were far more able to cope and adapt to a new man in the house and it certainly kept me young! I've gotta say that kids don't represent a problem for me in fact it often appears that i represent a problem to them! |
Oooh please don't tell me you compete for their toys...?
10.09.2006, 15:34 quote
| redoctober wrote: |
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But it doesn't necessarily follow that having your own kids means you'd be willing to take on someone elses. I know from bitter experience |
I ment i wouldnt expect some one my age who hasnt got kids to want to get involved with me who has.
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10.09.2006, 15:40 quote
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I ment i wouldnt expect some one my age who hasnt got kids to want to get involved with me who has. |
why not??? surely you are a package!
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10.09.2006, 15:47 quote
Ah Anomander my man!
Only the PS2! LOL
Even i drew the line at barbie dolls but the lego these days is mind blowing!
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