Well i've sent my first 2 'Hello' messages, they'll probably end up being binned as I don't think they were too good. After reading all the advice, I still didn't really know what to say..

But Ho Hum, we'll see.
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youll be ok..the first step is always the hardest...i always like it when i get a message about what i read or listen to or something about my likes or dislikes

Well I managed that in the first one, but the second was a tad harder as there was hardly any information there.
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those are the ones i stay away from and if they message me i tell them to msg back when they have more on their profile lol

You would never believe that the art of communication could be so hard!
Hang in there and keep trying.
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Good luck Ekans

Good luck with them...but don't make the mistake I made. I sent a few when I first signed up for flirtbox, but most of them are still in my outbox because the women haven't logged on for about a year Possibly you've put a bit more thought into it.

i sent one the other day to a guy.

as far as i could tell the email was honest, open, interesting and had some humor in it. i commented on his profile and mentioned the bands or authors we had in common... left him with a flirty openended statement and said..."let me know if you want to have a chat sometime XXXX Purrr"

i got no reply lol
he read it tho... it's been read in my outbox... he just...didn't reply lmao

so guys relax...it's not just you males who get ignored.

well surely if he's interested it'd be in his best interests to answer? lmfao

i don't think he is interested... that's fine lol. just sorry i waste my time coming up with original messages when all i seem to get are mass produced ones that have obviously gone out to hundreds of women. i got one this morning that i couldn't even understand.... hahaha.

it was titled good friends and here's the bulk of the message... if anyone can understand it feel free to enlighten little old me.

their that time still of spokesperson is good friend who perfect incarnation, is you i with everyboby. let them guide usto come out the front in ages together along.

there you go..... dicipher that!