Ha ha yes I am sure, but before you ask, No I do not want any Romanian in me!

No ta

What's with everyone telling the OP to be himself, then continue to tell him *how* to act....either he's gotta act like you tell him, or just be himself....Which incidentally, he *IS* being himself.
Desperate and miserable.
That's who he was when he wrote the first post.
He was being himself.
So come on, dont tell him to be himself when you really mean "yourself is not acceptable, be like I tell you to be instead".

Oi - OP, being your desperate miserable self aint working! Stop being yourself, start acting like peeps here say instead!!

How can a person fail to be themselves?

http://www.wikihow.com/Be-Yourself

Actually not a bad article.

Some okay advice so far - First thing to do is change your PROFILE PIC, if you ever post a pic of yourself and your alone it better be a professional photo, if not than you should be out doing something where there are obviously other people around. Girls look at your pic and imagine being there with you - they don't want to be in a dark bedroom with just you!

Never post pics of you in messy rooms - pretty girls like cleanliness and they judge harshly! Also - next time you get a haircut go to a SALON and drop 30 bucks for your cut, ask the stylist how you should style your hair to make it look PERF! Then go to some clothing stores and start asking the workers there for fashion advice, I promise every girl you notice dresses great and spends a lot of time building their wardrobe - they want a guy who does the same.

Also - I'd recommend hitting the gym, get in as good of shape as you can (you don't have to be Brad Pitt), also go tanning a couple times a week. Then last but not least - find some cool guy buddies to chill with and help each other out with getting girls. Read the book "The Mystery Method" or any other dating advice books (websites, whatever) with your guy buddies and apply everything in it 100% together, if you want a hottie you're going to have to work, this may be a year long process but it will pay off in the end. Trust me! I've been there bro I know it's tough - but I also know that after a couple of years of studying and applying the things I've learned, I can get most any girl. ANYONE can if they play by the right rules! [/url]