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13.07.2007, 17:03 quote

AgnosticFront
AgnosticFront Joined: 12 Jul 2007 Posts: 5 Location: United Kingdom, England, East Yorkshire
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Iv gained my personal image that i am comfortable with. i like the way i look and my lifesyle but i find it hard to get women interested. I it because of the way i dress, my music taste or am i just plain ugly. I have been succsessful before dont get me wrong i was just wondering what the general opinion is of me. The single life does tend to get lonely.
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13.07.2007, 18:00 quote

imperfect

You're comfortable with your image, that's what's important Smile Oh and I really don't think music tastes matter! No-one's ugly. Anyways, if someone didn't like you just cause they don't like your looks they're not worth it in the first place, maybe you're just meeting the wrong people

 

13.07.2007, 19:36 quote

Anonymous

there's no getting away from the fact that being into the whole rock/metal lifestyle/scene puts us in a minority, which makes it harder to find interested women. Its simply a numbers game the more females u can get to look at your profile/pic the more chance there is. Its a fact that some sites work better than others. Try them all, at once, is my advice. pm me & i'll tell u which I think is the best.

 

13.07.2007, 19:40 quote

Anonymous

browolf wrote:
there's no getting away from the fact that being into the whole rock/metal lifestyle/scene puts us in a minority, which makes it harder to find interested women. Its simply a numbers game the more females u can get to look at your profile/pic the more chance there is. Its a fact that some sites work better than others. Try them all, at once, is my advice. pm me & i'll tell u which I think is the best.


Hey I like rock, and guys with long hair

*giggles*

 

16.07.2007, 16:12 quote

resincake
resincake Joined: 14 Jul 2007 Posts: 268 Location: United Kingdom, England, West Midlands
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I am not keen on my profile photo .. My eyes look seriously int4ense on it, even though they arent like that in RL..

I think most people think of themselves as unattractive, I dont know anyone who doesnt think they have something they would change about themselves. However, i do agree with the comment that there is someone for everyone, and that everybody is attractive to somebody, as we all have different tastes..

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Russ

p.s. I listen to Rap quite a bit, and have yet to find any woman who likes that music .. :/
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17.07.2007, 03:04 quote

michaelsonn
michaelsonn Joined: 14 Jun 2007 Posts: 23 Location: United Kingdom, England, Kent
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browolf wrote:
there's no getting away from the fact that being into the whole rock/metal lifestyle/scene puts us in a minority, which makes it harder to find interested women.


I used to have long hair and lived in leathers (must find a pic), still like metal sounds but don't have the image now. (less hair Crying or Very sad ) As a rock dude I had less luck with meeting people. But then I had less confidence too... hey there are lots of rock and hippychicks around...looking for a good guy like you. You may have to widen your net / sites though

 

17.07.2007, 22:51 quote

samatron
samatron Joined: 24 May 2007 Posts: 219 Location: United Kingdom, England, Greater Manchester
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Don't be worrying about playing no numbers game.
If you're attracted to rock chicks, you've got to look the part.
If you like the Burlesque look, don't be wearing no topman togs.
You want a blonde high maintenance fashion savvy skinny tanned it girl? You've got to get you some metrosexual assmonkey action going on!

No ugly people? Ever been to www.uglypeople.com ?

Being 'not classically good-looking', facially-challenged or whatever really doesn't matter. Learning how to communicate, make friends, entertain, be a fun person to be around is way more important than how different you look to Brad Pitt.

 

18.07.2007, 00:51 quote

michaelsonn
michaelsonn Joined: 14 Jun 2007 Posts: 23 Location: United Kingdom, England, Kent
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spot on comment Samatron

Cool

 

18.07.2007, 01:53 quote

Teggro
Joined: 31 May 2007 Posts: 564 Location: United Kingdom, England, West Midlands
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AgnosticFront wrote:
Iv gained my personal image that i am comfortable with. i like the way i look and my lifesyle but i find it hard to get women interested. I it because of the way i dress, my music taste or am i just plain ugly. I have been succsessful before dont get me wrong i was just wondering what the general opinion is of me. The single life does tend to get lonely.



Sounds contradictory to me - being happy with your physique, but feeling unattractive. If you're after a date on here, or relationship, why have you ticked for pretty much every option? If a woman was liking what she saw, but then saw "threesomes or group love", she may be turned off. Now, if you've had women before, there's no need to feel unattractive (then top it off with how you're comfortable with your physique). So it's obvious some women find you attractive, but not every woman is going to take a fancy, simply because it's not how it works.

 

18.07.2007, 02:41 quote

shirazkhan
shirazkhan Joined: 28 Jan 2007 Posts: 1166 Location: United Kingdom, Scotland, Glasgow
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go to sleep Teg - it's 4 am Laughing

 

18.07.2007, 10:06 quote

Anonymous

well, i think what's most important is your personality, how you approach someone and what you are looking for.

i've been contacted by the typical "good boy" who turned out to be a pr*ck and i've been contacted by the typical "bad boy" who actually turned out to be a nice person.

look only matters to a certain extent and, i know this has been repeated by many, if you don't have the personality to match, the look is not enough!!!!

anyway, keep in mind that people like different things, there might be girls who fancy you but you might not fancy back or vice versa....you'll find the one for you if you keep looking

 

18.07.2007, 13:50 quote

Teggro
Joined: 31 May 2007 Posts: 564 Location: United Kingdom, England, West Midlands
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shirazkhan wrote:
go to sleep Teg - it's 4 am Laughing



I know yeah. I don't think I made my point too clear. Confused

 
 
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