i was with someone who treated me like a princess. we got engaged after 4 months..and i thought he was the one i would spend the rest of my life with..but 2 years down the line, the doting evolved into controlling and possessiveness, all done for 'my best interests'

i couldn make friends in uni that were male, bcoz he was 'worried about me' and seen as my course is predominantly male, that meant i basically wasnt allowed friends..

i know he loved me and all the rest of it but in that kind of environment it is hard to breathe, and the day came when i couldnt take it any more.

i think giving girls their space as well as caring for them is important especially when you are young..now im 20 and single again but i have so much freedom now thta i just didnt have for two years..i wont go into another relationship like that..

thats jus my opinion anyway, lol

Hi Inspired17,
Ah you poor pet. First of all (without sounding patronising) you are far too hard on yourself and women pick that up and can sometimes use it. Like some of the others have already said think about urself first,then they'l come knocking on your door. Anyway, what i can remember relationships at that age are all drama, do the 'casual thing' for a while. You defo sound like a nice guy and she's out there..believe me!!

I meet women, date them, might have love with them..then become blasé towards them, but try not to be rude. I tell them I dont have relationships, but they still try and have them with me, which is odd.

Not being conceited, but just saying what happens to me.
Not sure why they dont move on after I dont reply to all their texts.

Not saying I like being like this in real life, but its the way I am.

get the picturem8 they just seem to drift after a while.

well men confuse me, i dont understand them at all!!

yes she needs at least three, probably more

yes one to go out with and at least two to follow you around doggedly worshipping you