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07.12.2008, 01:04 quote

jeggae
jeggae Joined: 06 Dec 2008 Posts: 2174 Location: United Kingdom, England, Bedfordshire
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Probably men havent changed in general for a long time, but woman have recently. If women dont know what men want now they probably never will, but men have to start learning what women ultimately want.

Most men probably want women the way they were up until the 90's.

 

07.12.2008, 09:53 quote

choochi0

Chet24 wrote:
Cazzabee wrote:
Anway....how do you treat a man right????


Come round and I shall give you a engaging lecture with proper demonstrations


Watch you don't shine your laser pen in her eyes.....

 

07.12.2008, 11:13 quote

Chet24
Chet24 Joined: 20 Mar 2007 Posts: 12142 Location: United Kingdom, England, London
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choochi0 wrote:
Chet24 wrote:
Cazzabee wrote:
Anway....how do you treat a man right????


Come round and I shall give you a engaging lecture with proper demonstrations


Watch you don't shine your laser pen in her eyes.....


Lol i actually have to laser pen's one green and one red!
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07.12.2008, 11:20 quote

bexbex

Men never know what they want so how can they expect to be treated right?
We keep trying and then they go and move the goal posts.

 

07.12.2008, 11:27 quote

kizz

^^^^^^^^ I concur with what she said ^^^^^^^^

wb becky x

 

07.12.2008, 12:00 quote

bliss23

I for one don't care anymore how anyone gets treated, including me. Laughing All I ask for is respect. Laughing And other minor things (a whole bunch of them). PMSL

 

07.12.2008, 14:02 quote

rocketgirl

bexbex wrote:
Men never know what they want so how can they expect to be treated right?
We keep trying and then they go and move the goal posts.


Not all.
You just havent met a nice one yet, that's all.
Some do know what they want, but dont tell us that we are not it, and just play us along until they can't get away with it any longer or someone else who might be what they want catches their eye. Laughing

 

07.12.2008, 14:18 quote

206bones

Oiyoiyoi – goal-post moving isn’t gender specific; everyone moves goal-posts (whether one cares to admit it to themselves or not is largely dependent on their honesty with themselves).

Goal-post moving either happens naturally after a period of time (when someone’s expectations or aims in life change) or is 'faked', deliberately moving goal-posts to an area outside of the playing field that the other person feels comfortable in – often with the aim of putting the onus of a breakup onto the other persons shoulders.

 

07.12.2008, 14:25 quote

bliss23

Fine. So it's better to put the goals way up from the first thing so you can lower them a bit, but still get the whole shabang. Razz LOL

Besides... If the goals ain't high enough then how the heck are you supposed to grow? I like to grow. Laughing

 

07.12.2008, 14:30 quote

rocketgirl

206bones wrote:
Oiyoiyoi – goal-post moving isn’t gender specific; everyone moves goal-posts (whether one cares to admit it to themselves or not is largely dependent on their honesty with themselves).


Well, it is the lady's perogative to change her mind! Twisted Evil

/only kidding, I dont really believe that. Goal post moving is not gender specific and is not right when its done deliberately and dishonestly/
/and I agree with what you just said/

 

07.12.2008, 14:30 quote

aphroditefound

No wonder I don't like football.. too many goalposts..

 

07.12.2008, 15:12 quote

jeggae
jeggae Joined: 06 Dec 2008 Posts: 2174 Location: United Kingdom, England, Bedfordshire
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Being able to remember back 40 years vividly, I know who's changed and moved the goalposts the most in that time, and it isn't men. Men are still simple people with simple needs.

Some men, not me, would say life was much better when women where submissive and oppressed. As I say, I dont think like that

 

07.12.2008, 15:52 quote

bexbex

jeggae wrote:
Men are still simple people with simple needs.


Sorry Jegs but thats a load of bollox. Men are a lot more complicated than women, and need a whole lot more to feel as though they're being treated properly.

And then there are those who want to be treated right but just can't be arsed to do the same to the lady involved.

 

07.12.2008, 17:35 quote

jeggae
jeggae Joined: 06 Dec 2008 Posts: 2174 Location: United Kingdom, England, Bedfordshire
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bexbex wrote:
jeggae wrote:
Men are still simple people with simple needs.


Sorry Jegs but thats a load of bollox. Men are a lot more complicated than women, and need a whole lot more to feel as though they're being treated properly.

And then there are those who want to be treated right but just can't be arsed to do the same to the lady involved.


That line was a bit tongue in cheek Becky, not sure if a little wink emotion would have made any difference as the bitterness shines though.

Personally I havent wanted anything from women, and have always given more then I got. I dont mind that at all.
That's why I have a lot of female friends in real life.

 

07.12.2008, 17:35 quote

206bones

bexbex wrote:
Men are a lot more complicated than women, and need a whole lot more to feel as though they're being treated properly.

And then there are those who want to be treated right but just can't be arsed to do the same to the lady involved.


This sounds very much like the view of a specific incident, or an incident with a particular person, rather than a general observation of human nature.





Back on topic, I am indeed a man of simple needs. I don't believe that there is a differecne between treating a man or a woman 'right'; it's a mutual thing.

But being a little more practical, and breaking my needs down into physical and emotional, for the former - if a woman allows me to indulge in oral love on her (along with light strangulation and a bit of spanking) I am as content as newborn puppy suckling at its mother’s teat. For the latter (emotionally), if we can anticipate each other’s mood and desires, and make thoughtful gestures that please each other, then I’d have another go at afore-mentioned teat, thank you very much.

 
 
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