What is the safest and easiest way to meet up with somebody you meet on the Internet?

make sure you have spoken to the person on the phone
seen them on webcam
been in contact for a while at least
make sure other people know where you are going and who with
arrange to meet a friend later on perhaps
meet somewhere public
make sure you have an escape plan haha

experience lol

Cattle prod ought to be sufficient. Ain't no bugger going to be getting up too soon after a shock from one of them