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Home >> Dating >> How to get people to like you?
16.04.2007, 12:44 quote
be confident and talkative. try to keep converstion going and no what to talk about and what not to.
clearly talking about tits to a girl you just met might b very off putting
but talking about interests wouldnt, unless your interest is tits
16.04.2007, 12:50 quote
| lostinyoureyes wrote: |
| be confident and talkative. try to keep converstion going and no what to talk about and what not to.
clearly talking about tits to a girl you just met might b very off putting but talking about interests wouldnt, unless your interest is tits |
16.04.2007, 12:56 quote
| twistedvoilet wrote: |
| me 2... |
me 3, but i rather not talk abt them but definitely wanna to touch them. it would give more insight then just talking
16.04.2007, 13:55 quote
if people like fine if they don't they're most probaly not worth knowing anyway.
16.04.2007, 15:37 quote
You can't really get anyone to like you. They either like you or they don't. And if you change yourself to get someone to like you aren't you essentially lying to them anyway? Not a good start.
16.04.2007, 15:47 quote
| lostinyoureyes wrote: |
| be confident and talkative. try to keep converstion going and no what to talk about and what not to.
clearly talking about tits to a girl you just met might b very off putting but talking about interests wouldnt, unless your interest is tits |
rofl I tend to home in on common interests and ask things about them. People are usually comfortable talking about themselves and things they know.
tits ftw
17.04.2007, 20:24 quote
I spent most of my teens trying to be liked by everyone. It can't be done if you want to have any self-respect or integrity. It's easy to feel like you're failing in some way because not everybody likes you.
There is no-one out there who is liked by everybody. Be true to yourself, and there will be people out there who appreciate you. Equally there are people who won't, but as so many have already said. F**k 'em.
17.04.2007, 20:31 quote
ok fine talk about tits it clearly gets some people going. ermm getting people to like you is something you need to earn i think and if people dont wanna get to know you then they prob aint worth talking to.
also people like been praised or told there good at something, make them happy and they may do the same to you
i dont realy know what im talking about today
11.06.2007, 10:02 quote
As a matter of fact, human has the nature to get together to surive the nature, seeking for agreement are the natural instinct.
Depends on how independant you are to bend yourself to the common sense.
11.06.2007, 10:11 quote
If you tend to be yourself without putting on an act then somebody is going to like you for being truthful anyway, there's no point rushing things and saying you need someone to like you on the spot because it doesn't ever work like that.
Just present yourself in a decent way and dress for the right moment and you'll end up with someone liking you.
11.06.2007, 23:55 quote
| babygirkuk wrote: | ||
well said u took the words right out ov my mouth!! |
Call me Mary Contrary. Scientifically, you can make someone like you.
There is the famous book 'How to win friends and influence people'
There is also the huge pop-psychology field of NLP (neurolinguistic programming) which involves triggering mindstates in people so that they will comply to your frame.
Sure, that's not very honest and is downright manipulative, and not something I'd do, but totally invalidates your optimistic and romantic statement. You can make people like you!
'Just Be Yourself' is a BS cliché that leaves many people behind in the single zone.
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