i,ve been on this site for a few days and sent messeges to numerous women and to no avail. i don't even get a reply saying they don't want to talk to me. i'm not sure if the women aren't intersted or if my messeges are even getting to them. please help.

Perhaps its the fact that you've stated you just want sex

good point i never thought of that. maybe i need to change the way i look at this and decide if i want sex or other things more. i guess this isn't a site for finding a sexual partner but more than that. u really put this into perspective for me thanks.

No problem. There are lots of sites dedicated to finding a f**k buddy if thats what you're after so perhaps you would have more luck there

In saying that missme there are a fair few on this site lookin for F**k buddies but a moderate approach with your profile would work wonders!

I think it's the missinterpretation and use of the word FUN and the phrase activity partners! the number of youngsters wanting threesums doesn't help either! so perhaps catagories would help?

Yeh just chat on the forums, and people will get a little bit of a better feel about you.

Then see where it leads to, i still think the forums could handle messages better so you wouldnt have to go to the profile first.

Hey Dan were runnig that idea on two other threads!!!! was glad to see that there is a good number of hits on both threads!!!!!! if only the dorks who spoil it all could be weeded out? i think maybe most of us have gone for a short relationship after a divorce etc so nowt wrong with havin friends of the opposite sex!