jus go with the flow Dave, if she is keen 2 meet u and u are also then wat is stopping u from both meeting, u have nothing 2 loss, as scary and exciting as it is jus make that first steep and meet u never know x
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good for u , and yes u will be nervous, but i always find that that will pass after chatting for a bit
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Are you going on a date? Or going to meet a potential new friend with maybe possabilities of more once you've got to know her?

I find if you play down expectations it makes it easier to be relaxed and be yourself...

id want to speak on the phone with them before i me them, especially if they aint got a pic, just to make sure they are female and not some nutter. unless they were somebody well known to friends of mine, then that would be a different case entirely. but no pic and an early meeting, i'd want a phone call.

Dave go for it. If she is well local then go for coffee asap I reckon!

I'll usually try and meet up with someone quite quickly after exchanging 'pm's for a few days or more. After all, these are mostly 'dating' sites so I figure its best to go on a date! If you 'click' then great, if not, then it means you can move on...

Also I echo what was said earlier about 'no pic'...you could be going to meet some right rough old snaggletooth for all you know! I seriously don't believe that anyone intelligent enough to post a profile cant get it together to post a pic too

can i just say how lovely it is to read about this its all so sweet dave, put a smile on my face lol

hope it all goes well for you!! =]

I think you should just go for it.

The after meeting report: We sat and chatted for 2 hours, and then she said she wanted to go @ 930am, because she was working the next day and had some things to do before work.

I'm not sure where to go from here, but we seemed to get on OK, and I guess we'd hardly spoken since before meeting so maybe 2hrs is quite good. She also, unprompted said something about talking soon. Perhaps a good thing is that she's working all of next week, so there's time to chat casually and see how things go.

I'm usually really crap at all this working out if it is friends, more than friends or nothing stuff . It's only ever gone somewhere for me when there's been at least kissing on the first date, and when there's not I've either fluffed it or it wasn't meant to be.

However it goes though, I am pleased, it was a nice evening and I am going to try and do things a bit different to how I've done it when it has gone wrong & see what happens.

Oh, she was pretty *and* it was in a different way to other girls I have been with. There's quite a lot of differences, in fact, which is all good. I like to sample something different.

Wow............sounds as though things went werll then. Can only wait and see what happens now. Could be the love of your life