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07.07.2007, 22:55 quote

Anonymous

justb wrote:

ahhh...to be honest and just for the comedy value.....guys tell girls that when they don't want to f*ck them anymore.


Well done, you just jumped from my "seems ok" list to my "bit of a tit" list in one move!

 

08.07.2007, 01:24 quote

cmiso

8legs wrote:
This delightful Lady Rothman seems to know more mature guys than are generally found here. Yes, it wasn't the result that was wanted but good for him to not let it ruin a friendship. You don't get that happen too often.


Better that result than him take advantage of the situation too.

 

08.07.2007, 23:58 quote

nelboy
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As you know am new to this but hey, gotta start somewhere! i'd say dont give up all hope! you never know! hes clearly a good friend who chose not to take advantage of the situation and people like that are few and far. When i was 18 (seems like yesterday) my best friend was a girl (pip) we did everthing together, drink, bowl, pics days out etc. i was in your situation and too was told just want to be friends.... o.k Sad . 12 months later she confessed to being in love with me so then together we were, living together then engaged and spent 7 happy years together Very Happy . my point being you never know what the future holds and if nothing else sounds like you got a real good friend you can rely on! Wink

 

09.07.2007, 08:57 quote

Anonymous

nelboy wrote:
As you know am new to this but hey, gotta start somewhere! i'd say dont give up all hope! you never know! hes clearly a good friend who chose not to take advantage of the situation and people like that are few and far. When i was 18 (seems like yesterday) my best friend was a girl (pip) we did everthing together, drink, bowl, pics days out etc. i was in your situation and too was told just want to be friends.... o.k Sad . 12 months later she confessed to being in love with me so then together we were, living together then engaged and spent 7 happy years together Very Happy . my point being you never know what the future holds and if nothing else sounds like you got a real good friend you can rely on! Wink


thanks

He is a good friend, and I have turned other dates down because I thought he might ask, but now I know he's not interested in me in that way, I can move on.

 

09.07.2007, 09:22 quote

Anonymous

SarahRothman wrote:
nelboy wrote:
As you know am new to this but hey, gotta start somewhere! i'd say dont give up all hope! you never know! hes clearly a good friend who chose not to take advantage of the situation and people like that are few and far. When i was 18 (seems like yesterday) my best friend was a girl (pip) we did everthing together, drink, bowl, pics days out etc. i was in your situation and too was told just want to be friends.... o.k Sad . 12 months later she confessed to being in love with me so then together we were, living together then engaged and spent 7 happy years together Very Happy . my point being you never know what the future holds and if nothing else sounds like you got a real good friend you can rely on! Wink


thanks

He is a good friend, and I have turned other dates down because I thought he might ask, but now I know he's not interested in me in that way, I can move on.


Sorry to hear that Sarah, hope your friendship is still strong, this sort of thing can cause awkward problems. As you say though, now time to move on...and good luck Smile

 

09.07.2007, 09:36 quote

Anonymous

Jeggea wrote:

Sorry to hear that Sarah, hope your friendship is still strong, this sort of thing can cause awkward problems. As you say though, now time to move on...and good luck Smile



Thanks I saw him on saturday, we are still friends

 

09.07.2007, 12:45 quote

Anonymous

Its so tempting to comment at this point but I will stay my blow

 

09.07.2007, 12:47 quote

Anonymous

SarahRothman wrote:
Jeggea wrote:

Sorry to hear that Sarah, hope your friendship is still strong, this sort of thing can cause awkward problems. As you say though, now time to move on...and good luck Smile



Thanks I saw him on saturday, we are still friends


Good Wink

 

09.07.2007, 22:34 quote

samatron
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Well done Sarah for going for it!
I was dying to know the outcome!
I think it took a lot of guts to do what you did. He sounds like a really nice guy.
I can't believe he brought 300 round! That is such a blokey movie! In fact, it's so blokey, it's almost bordering on homoerotic! It's not out on DVD yet, so you could always blackmail him into a relationship by threatening to shop him to FACT! If he stands firm, you might even make a few quid!

http://www.fact-uk.org.uk/

Twisted Evil

 

09.07.2007, 22:48 quote

Anonymous

samatron wrote:
Well done Sarah for going for it!
I was dying to know the outcome!
I think it took a lot of guts to do what you did. He sounds like a really nice guy.
I can't believe he brought 300 round! That is such a blokey movie! In fact, it's so blokey, it's almost bordering on homoerotic! It's not out on DVD yet, so you could always blackmail him into a relationship by threatening to shop him to FACT! If he stands firm, you might even make a few quid!

http://www.fact-uk.org.uk/

Twisted Evil


yeah, shopping him to FACT is really going to make him like me... lol

 

09.07.2007, 23:39 quote

Teggro
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SarahRothman wrote:
samatron wrote:
Well done Sarah for going for it!
I was dying to know the outcome!
I think it took a lot of guts to do what you did. He sounds like a really nice guy.
I can't believe he brought 300 round! That is such a blokey movie! In fact, it's so blokey, it's almost bordering on homoerotic! It's not out on DVD yet, so you could always blackmail him into a relationship by threatening to shop him to FACT! If he stands firm, you might even make a few quid!

http://www.fact-uk.org.uk/

Twisted Evil


yeah, shopping him to FACT is really going to make him like me... lol


That is what matters. Twisted Evil

On a less serious note; it's a shame that he didn't feel the same way Sarah. In the great words of Mr.T, "ah piddy da fool!".. the fool being your friend.

 

10.07.2007, 18:59 quote

justb
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SarahRothman wrote:
justb wrote:

ahhh...to be honest and just for the comedy value.....guys tell girls that when they don't want to f*ck them anymore.


Well done, you just jumped from my "seems ok" list to my "bit of a tit" list in one move!


was said in humour so sorry if ur were offended.Let me know if i make it onto ur "hit-list"
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10.07.2007, 19:00 quote

Anonymous

lol ...no once your on sarahs tit list then theres no going back Laughing

 

10.07.2007, 19:05 quote

justb
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cheekyeyes wrote:
lol ...no once your on sarahs tit list then theres no going back Laughing


I meant "hit" as in "assassination" Very Happy
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10.07.2007, 20:47 quote

Anonymous

justb wrote:
cheekyeyes wrote:
lol ...no once your on sarahs tit list then theres no going back Laughing


I meant "hit" as in "assassination" Very Happy


do you see that red dot on your chest?

 
 
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