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04.01.2009, 20:44 quote

fireinmyheart
fireinmyheart Joined: 01 Oct 2008 Posts: 1598 Location: United Kingdom, England, Buckinghamshire
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unimportant wrote:
I know exactly what u mean. just about an example....
but what I'm telling is that a person shouldn't be judged by a joke, as we also don't judge anybody by the colour,religion.....
in fact, some people after u exposed your example, might think that u are to extremist and give no chance to people to know them Wink
see? we start to know u: what u don't like, u put aside





After the joke was told I confronted her about it... she admited that she HATES this particular minority and would like to kill them all... now as someone who dislikes REAL racism I could not put up with this... and like I said there were also other things about her that I didnt like.

I give everyone a fair chance to get to know them... in fact my mates constantly tell me I give people far too many chances.
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04.01.2009, 20:48 quote

unimportant
unimportant Joined: 07 Aug 2008 Posts: 354 Location: United Kingdom, England, London
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fireinmyheart wrote:
After the joke was told I confronted her about it... she admited that she HATES this particular minority and would like to kill them all... now as someone who dislikes REAL racism I could not put up with this... and like I said there were also other things about her that I didnt like.

I give everyone a fair chance to get to know them... in fact my mates constantly tell me I give people far too many chances.


the more u say,the more we start to know u....
and now I got it even better. so I know your point about that... and I know that u are not to fast in decisions...
beer

 

04.01.2009, 20:54 quote

jeggae
jeggae Joined: 06 Dec 2008 Posts: 2174 Location: United Kingdom, England, Bedfordshire
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funkychick1 wrote:
Yes of course a dodgy pic is very dishonest .......... are you saying some regulars pics are not who they really are ......... very intersting


At the end of the day we all have to go with our instincts ........... the few guys i have dated hsve been excactly what i thought they were so i have had a good experience .......... but i know others you haven't


Come on there's been a few on here that wouldnt look like their pics unless they were a freak of nature.

on another forum there was a user with a very good picture, to me it looked like a fake.

When I 'jokingly' mentioned it looks like a model off google images, all the deluded women on there that fancied him had a go at me and told me I was being jealous.

This man caused turmoil on the forums. Messaged all the women, said he was going to meet them all, and turned them against each other. Caused a hell of a lot of catty fighting between the women, and broke up a lot of friendships. He still pops back now and again and causes problems.

Unfortunately some women are suckers for this kind of dishonesty. Spoils it for the rest of us.

 

04.01.2009, 20:55 quote

sc0ttie

funkychick1 wrote:
Yes it's the internet and some might say 'who gives a f*ck never guna see any of them anyway'.......... But for those 'genuine' few who are here to maybe go on a few dates or maybe meet your future partner ........ is it not better to be yourself from the start.


I just quoted that piece of text because i wanted you to clarify for me.....If someone is just here for the forums (like me at the moment) from what you say there, does that mean they are considered "not genuine"? Only i ask because i have got my authentication hologram sticker, but i cant find it right now?

I personally am who i say i am, but i do think that people are a multitude of things, rather than just one dimensional. I don't think any one person is only outgoing or only introverted. People's personalities are very diverse and they can change due to things like environment, stress levels etc.

I hope that people can see that in my posts, because sometimes i can be very jokey, sometimes a bit grouchy, and sometimes a bit of a softy. I dont feel i am attention seeker, there are some on here who like having their ego stroked a bit TOO often, but you get those in real life so it all pans out really.

 

04.01.2009, 20:58 quote

funkychick1

sc0ttie wrote:
funkychick1 wrote:
Yes it's the internet and some might say 'who gives a f*ck never guna see any of them anyway'.......... But for those 'genuine' few who are here to maybe go on a few dates or maybe meet your future partner ........ is it not better to be yourself from the start.


I just quoted that piece of text because i wanted you to clarify for me.....If someone is just here for the forums (like me at the moment) from what you say there, does that mean they are considered "not genuine"? Only i ask because i have got my authentication hologram sticker, but i cant find it right now?

I personally am who i say i am, but i do think that people are a multitude of things, rather than just one dimensional. I don't think any one person is only outgoing or only introverted. People's personalities are very diverse and they can change due to things like environment, stress levels etc.

I hope that people can see that in my posts, because sometimes i can be very jokey, sometimes a bit grouchy, and sometimes a bit of a softy. I dont feel i am attention seeker, there are some on here who like having their ego stroked a bit TOO often, but you get those in real life so it all pans out really.


Off course i know your a genuine person, what i meant was certain people say they are here for dating but i am sure have no intention, if ever of meeting anyone for dating, just thrive on the attention etc .......... that sort of genuine

I am not very good with the written word Scott ......... i am get my point across much easier in real life ....... Laughing

 

04.01.2009, 21:02 quote

sc0ttie

funkychick1 wrote:
i am get my point across much easier in real life ....... Laughing


I bet you say that to all the guys Laughing Laughing

 

04.01.2009, 21:04 quote

funkychick1

sc0ttie wrote:
funkychick1 wrote:
i am get my point across much easier in real life ....... Laughing


I bet you say that to all the guys Laughing Laughing


f*ck off you .......... it's these bloddy fingers nails ...... Laughing Laughing

 

04.01.2009, 21:17 quote

unimportant
unimportant Joined: 07 Aug 2008 Posts: 354 Location: United Kingdom, England, London
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funkychick1 wrote:
Off course i know your a genuine person, what i meant was certain people say they are here for dating but i am sure have no intention, if ever of meeting anyone for dating, just thrive on the attention etc .......... that sort of genuine

I am not very good with the written word Scott ......... i am get my point across much easier in real life ....... Laughing


ahaa..
my writen english is not good, but "I yem verrrry goood in da real life"

 

04.01.2009, 21:43 quote

Cazzabee
Cazzabee Joined: 05 Jan 2006 Posts: 7246 Location: United Kingdom, Scotland, Fife
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sc0ttie wrote:
Only i ask because i have got my authentication hologram sticker, but i cant find it right now?


Dammit Scott....have you managed to lose it AGAIN???? How many times....... Laughing Laughing

 

04.01.2009, 21:46 quote

sc0ttie

Cazzabee wrote:
sc0ttie wrote:
Only i ask because i have got my authentication hologram sticker, but i cant find it right now?


Dammit Scott....have you managed to lose it AGAIN???? How many times....... Laughing Laughing


Its not sticky enough, it keeps falling off in the bath Laughing

 

04.01.2009, 22:08 quote

70

Honesty gets me nowhere, so now i'm going to try a different approach Laughing

 

04.01.2009, 22:35 quote

Loveleelady
Loveleelady Joined: 12 Aug 2007 Posts: 434 Location: United Kingdom, Northern Ireland, Belfast
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The way I am here is the way I am in life. I like who I am, I have a good life, I'm content with what I've got yet work unbelievably hard to achieve more. I love me, I love my family and friends, I believe in god and generally try to treat others how I would like to be treated. I am compassionate, kind, intelligent, very down to earth and love to go about life with a bit of crack and laughter. I don't know how honest other people are on here - I don't see it as my role to judge honesty however I do feel as I have stated previously that there is too much inappropriate self dislosure on here. Unfortunately this site is open to abuse and others being abused through it. I find this very distasteful and I will speak out if I think this and I will do what ever necessary if I see something inaapropriate on here.

 

04.01.2009, 22:48 quote

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I'm a bit late coming onto this thread but think everyone's made for some good dialogue on the subject of honesty.
I probably have mentioned somewhere that I actually met somebody who had a picture up of their relative, this can only be considered to be a 'biggy'in terms of honesty and I gather many ladies would have just turned away.
Incidentally if I'd done the same with my picture we would never have met as we wouldn't have known who the other was among people at our meeting place.
Anyway, as I'd come this far I decided that I would go through with what we'd planned and found him to be a lovely guy and we still meet up.
I like to change my pics 'cos I'm always worried as to whether my pic still looks like me all the time. I really don't wana be a SHOCK HORROR to anyone I'm meeting.
As for personality, I am what I am, and as far as the forums go, well I guess there are different sides of me running through them like everybody else who's a regular poster.

 

04.01.2009, 23:48 quote

sc0ttie

LittleVixen wrote:
Honesty gets me nowhere, so now i'm going to try a different approach Laughing


I wouldn't, they say honesty is always the best policy for a reason, you will only end up hating yourself if you became dishonest.

 

04.01.2009, 23:59 quote

unimportant
unimportant Joined: 07 Aug 2008 Posts: 354 Location: United Kingdom, England, London
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sc0ttie wrote:
LittleVixen wrote:
Honesty gets me nowhere, so now i'm going to try a different approach Laughing


I wouldn't, they say honesty is always the best policy for a reason, you will only end up hating yourself if you became dishonest.

yep,yep.
and she will end up being spanked for her mistakes...
yep yep.
and we will need to call the EST(emergency spanking team) to cope with to many lies that she told......
yep yep
and she might start to like it and lie more often

 
 
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