Hey everybody,

My friends think its time I tried my hand at this business. I don't really have issues with women as such, just confidence issues I guess, which I'm sure a lot can relate with. Just that first "hey" when your out, a lot of guys seem to be able to pull it off with ease but I usually just end up saying some random word instead, like "turtle" or "cabbage patch kids". I’m told I’m not ugly, but by friends, which means diddly squat because, well, they won’t turn around and say horrid things, they are friends. Currently 168.lbs, which IMO is about 20 over what I would like to be… Blonde, blue eyes, no relation at all to the Hitler youth… Erm, yeah that’s about it!

Not exactly new to being in a relationship, had a few serious ones, last one was 3 years which ended in May last year, one before together was 5 years. Like I said, I guess I just lack that initial confidence thing most guys tend to have.

Anyway, just stopping by to say hi etc! Can't imagine there are many from where I am on here, but you never know!

Thanks :p

Gav

Hi there, im new to all this too. Its kinda weird eh Im not really sure what im meant to be doing. I know what u mean by the initial hello thing. Even tho i am female, we do get it too. I have many male friends so i am normally quite comfortable talking to guys, only thing is most of em think i wanna be their friends lol. Whats a gal gotta do? lol Hope you find some luck on here. You seem like a nice AND good looking guy on u pic. ( You dont often get that combination )Trying to upload mine at the mo, not sure which one to chiise, sexy or normal? I bet i know which one u gonna say tho

Welcome to the forums gavavva & foxychicca. Happy posting!

Lovely message Gav ! Hope you find what you're searchin' for.

helloooo welcome chaps to flirtbox i hope you enjoy your stay and incase of emergancy the fire exits can be found \here/ \here/ and \here/ thank you and hope to see you again soon

lol WTF? Yeah, I have just gums :p

It sounds spot on what you say, still takes some getting used to, but in an odd way your guys are right... Chances are never going to see them again anyway, so who cares.

Hmmm... Maybe I should just try it, you never know right.
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Hi everyone, I'm also a newbee, but there is help on line for you gavavva, just google - how to meet women, or how to be more confident, there are tons of article that will help get you geared up for that initial HELLO

Gotta say, went out last night and tried to be a bit more relaxed about things. Was nice to see the old cheeky Gav come back into play Spoke to a lot of random ladies and even though I didn't strike it rich, I think I made a nice impression.

Guess it really is just that first impression that matters most to people, I just like shy women too for some reason? Plus romance, I'm an old fashioned guy, which sadly a lot of women don't seem to be into any more, so looks like its time for a little change!
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"Maybe it's not my weekend... But it's gonna be my year "
Gav, 26, Telford - Teacher/Games Designer