I need a bit of advice!I had got a few messages form someone on here and we seemed to get on well..we hadnt sent that many before we chatted on msn last night..we had only been chatting for about half an hour before i had to go out and although very pleasant i find him abit overpowering..i know it will ptobably seem like a bloke cant win...not enough attention v too much...but he was VERY complimnetary and talking about our first date within minutes and then when i said i had to go kept asking when i would be back. I spoke to him briefly this evening and he wanted to know where i was last night and said he had waited! i am being unfair to feel a little freaked out by this?

no, i'd feel the same and youre better to be safe than sorry...

thats what i think too...surely if i have doubts this early on it isnt a good idea to go any further...

Think that would freak me out too...gotta agree with you if he seems like that now then imagine what he would like after a few dates!!!!!!!

we could be married by morning!!!! or should i say

yeah...trust your instinct...of course

alternatively you could tell him how you feel...he mightnt realise hes coming on so strongly and is causing you a wee touch of anxiety...he could be a nice guy...

I have made some casual comments in a jokey way....didnt want to offend him..maybe i was being too subtle tho?

i dont think so...hes probably a caveman..

Walk away from the madman!

I had one of those from another site- kept tellng me how lucky he was to have met me. ....... we had spoken twice on MSN!

Scary people!

Your all making me feel sooo much better and not as unreasonable!! but what do i do now? i have to say something i would feel rude just to never speak to him again...what do i say?

lol feels a tad mean but certainly very tempting!! of course...if he reads this i wont need to worry about breakingnit to him at all!

oh that bit was fine...its when you asked for my mums number i got a bit worried.........lol