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11.11.2006, 05:18 quote

jamesgslade
Joined: 09 Nov 2006 Posts: 2 Location: USA, Alabama, Albertville
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Hi Jim here:
I am 40 disabled lost job due to my health in 2000 the disabitly is from pain
lot of back pain bad knees i am still mobile but with much pain.
so my days are spent on the computer the Internet an watching tv
I fell i am a fun person to be around but because i cant work i depend on others for income
so the depression sets in i feel of no use to a friend or a lover
i am a good cook love it love staying at home do house work still pretty able in the sex department
so i feel i would make some one a good houseman or a good stable friend some one there u can count on
but meeting new people getting out is a hard task for me i have been trying to find that friend or love online
but it seems im not what any one is looking for so i am writing to the forum asking for any suggestion
thoughts thank you in advance Digitally Yours Jim

 

11.11.2006, 08:32 quote

Anonymous

hi and welcome Very Happy maybe you should concentrate on the good points about you like your interests etc it gives off a a far better impression , but if you stick around on the forums here you will make plenty of friends i'm sure good luck Wink

 

11.11.2006, 14:26 quote

Anonymous

hey fellow american and welcome..peachy is right, lets hear some things u like...as far your disabliity alot are in your position but still get out there and do things, check out your local vets that are disabled they usually have lots going on and will give you ideas..get yourself involved in the community you will meet lots of people, im sure..i know alot of disabled people here that go on trips, have meetings and so forth..good luck to ya, pm me and we can chat..take care

 

11.11.2006, 15:38 quote

Ekans
Ekans Joined: 21 Oct 2006 Posts: 230 Location: United Kingdom, England, Surrey
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jamesgslade wrote:
Hi Jim here:
I am 40 disabled lost job due to my health in 2000 the disabitly is from pain
lot of back pain bad knees i am still mobile but with much pain.


Hi Jim, I'm in a very similar position to you and I'm 37, I have a blue badge, but I'm not disabled! I'm just differently abled..

You need to keep your chin up & don't focus on the things you can no longer do, just focus on the things you can do... Keep on the net and I'm sure someone will come along.

I'm just waiting for my Knight-es to arrive, but I just hope she doesn't want to chuck me on her horse.
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12.11.2006, 01:48 quote

jamesgslade
Joined: 09 Nov 2006 Posts: 2 Location: USA, Alabama, Albertville
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well focus on the positive an my talents. Lets see
I am a damn good cook, cook ever night of the week full meals from scratch.
my hobbies are Music listening i used to play some in the earlier years but i still love listening.
country an southern rock most pop. I am really into technology computers in an out
the net I love art Digital Art I am always into learning new software an techniques
like photoshoping painting ect.

 

12.11.2006, 08:29 quote

Ekans
Ekans Joined: 21 Oct 2006 Posts: 230 Location: United Kingdom, England, Surrey
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Well there's plenty of woman out there that don't like to cook, so if you look for someone with poor culinary skills, I'm sure you'll wow them..

Have you thought about joining a cookery or photography class? You can always teach other people! I know the US is a big place so I don't know if you have much like that going on around where you live.
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12.11.2006, 14:28 quote

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jamesgslade wrote:
well focus on the positive an my talents. Lets see
I am a damn good cook, cook ever night of the week full meals from scratch.
my hobbies are Music listening i used to play some in the earlier years but i still love listening.
country an southern rock most pop. I am really into technology computers in an out
the net I love art Digital Art I am always into learning new software an techniques
like photoshoping painting ect.
Wow and u havent found no southern belle yet...geez, now thats making us southern belles look bad (oh btw, im originally from Louisianna, lol) Ok so listen to Josh Turners "Just to be your Man" turn it around to say woman and think of me....cheers

 
 
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