I enjoy shocking trainers at the gym when my BMI is less than theirs, even though it looks like it shouldn't be. I go to the gym daily now thanks to having some extra cash - and I know most of the trainers there had bets that I wouldn't stick to it, but I used to be a bodybuilder, I know what my body is capable of even in its weakened fibromyalgia state. The hardest part is eating; I gained this weight because I never eat - no breakfast, ever, rarely lunch, I usually get dinner but it's not a given. Yesterday around 4:30 pm I realised I'd eaten nothing but a handful of cashews, and I had to force myself to eat a salad for tea.

However, I've got a date for Saturday, so can you see me worried about what size people think I need to be? Nope!

Do what you gotta do, and let everyone keep their preconcieved notions of why you look the way you do if they want. You're the only one who knows the truth, and in the words of Dr Suess; "those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind."

Heh, thank you, it's a rather amusing situation as it was someone I really wanted to date earlier this spring but things fell through and it turns out he's been looking for me ever since.

I liked my other post too, but I decided being confrontational probably wasn't going to be a very wise idea as it's a touchy subject in the main.

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Ouch!! Not all weight issues are down to what you do/don't eat and whether or not you do/don't excercise. [/quote]






I accept that but the vast majority of people who are overweight are so because of the wrong diet and lack of excercise.

ROFL, i'll put my spade down now ladies.

Safe to say i dont care how someone looks, i have fat and thin friends and whats more important to me is their happiness, if they are cool with it then its all good, if they aren't (like one of my mates is atm) then i offer advice where i can, subsequently imma be his training partner, he has no motivation and a job he wants requires fitness.

So yeah, i dont normally do this but i apologise for any riled feathers
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well some men prefer bigger boobs... smaller or bigger asses... long legs....

no it's not the same..... weight is the entire package... you're talking about one part of the package. nobody's perfect.

i have penis envy lmfao i want one.