rar who cares what they look like aslong as they can hold there l;iquer and know how to party!! thats my opinion xx xx xx

p.s. my way of say its inside that counts yep xx

Well lady I went out with all sizes from 8-18 stone I find plum ladies very sexy have a good stamina, social etiquette and very pretty face indeed.

my self I am very slim dance aholic shave my head but I am hairy monster I go out five nights weekly dancing solid 4 hours, I do not smoke or drink or take any drugs, my problem! it is hard to find a lady who go out and be energetic as me locally.

Many females I meet at the clubs well they are into drugs, drinking and smoking, you see I have trouble finding the right match.

About net dating well I am surprised at so many singles and with all the latest technology they are still where they were, “single” I do know what else we should invent to get this vast singles population together.

Well about coach potatoes and TV or footy I have switched TV, and satellite off since tsunami and went out clubbing ever since. Yes I like to hang out with dancing princess as I am dance addict. Swimming and few other bedroom sports and few fat ladies surprise me on the dance floor.

As for my preservation on many female profiles they are asking the sky as they want hunky men, fit, no slap head or hairy monsters or above certain age as if age is all that matter, and other things yet when I read their profile they are smoking chimneys or drinking fish and few drugs junkies.

I dislike eating out as I do enjoy cooking being ex chef and eat healthy food, pubs not my place to go to either.

As with the nature of dating site I am member to many sites where they do meet and mingle again they are into drinking and smoking. I learned not to judge a book by its cover.

For going out with fat ladies I think guys being fashion victims and unfair, as well we read that fat women are not that healthy as we are fed through the media, mind you many middle eastern men will not go out with any slim female they consider her weak to carry on family duties or coming from poor family so many ladies there are very fat indeed, you can see them in Arab world through many medias.

So lady we carry on waiting or searching for our ideal match hoping they really exist near where we live. And they are not fake profiles who even do not live in the UK let alone London.

well as i have said in other posts i am a curvy 14/16 and there aint nothing wrong with that...... i am happy enough in myself. i would ideally like to get down to a twelve but if i do i do and if i don't i won't kill myself over it lol.

any man who won't date a woman because she has a few extra pounds is really rather immature. forgive me if i'm wrong but guys, wouldn't you rather be with a curvy lady who enjoys herself in everything rather than a stick insect who will only eat a leaf of lettuce when you bring them out? lol cheap date i guess haha. blame the media, blame modern life....... blame whoever you want but the fact remains, women can lose wieght, that guy will always be an ignorant, arrogant, sheep who follows the flock rather than be himself.

i had an email a while back saying "almost yes, you'd be perfect if you lost a stone"

to which i replied.... hang on i'll find it...here it is>> ..... when i said almostpurrrfect i did not mean my drawbacks included wieght. on the contrary i am most happy with my curves. i am a healthy size 14-16 and anyone who says i look bad is just feeling insecure about themselves. dont get me wrong i am by no means in love with myself but i do love myself..if i dont love myself how can i expect someone else to love me? i am not full of myself but i know when i look good. your email, if intended to cause hurt had the opposite effect. it made me realise that i prolly look better than you since you aint got no pic uploaded. so thanks. bye.

and by the way.... not all thin people are happy in themselves either. some can look in the mirror and see a pile of lard looking back at them... simply because they do not have the body of kate moss... which i think looks damn unhealthy to begin with.... take my mate, she is a size ten without a pick on her. she thinks she is massive. it takes her longer to get ready than it does me cos she always thinks she looks fat. lol. it amuses me sometimes and other times it annoys the hell out of me. i mean..... i do think if you think you're fat what does that make me? lol.

oh well. nobody is perfect. and those who think they are may be lying to themselves to get through the next hour/day whatever.

i have never been with anyone who was stick thin, all have been size 14/16. i like curves and shape on a woman. Curves are sexy and good looking, if not, then why would all the car manufacturers not have stuck to the box shape cars of the past instead of introducing cars with plenty of curves.

Those that are predjudice against a persons size are most probably so insecure about themselves that they think that the whole world would be laughing at them, instead of thinking the whole world would be looking on thinking how lucky they are to have a nice sexy person on their arm.

Both excellent points Mandy and I just love your reply to the guy who said about losing a stine. Would he have said it to Marilyn Munroe I wonder, seeing as she is reported to have been a 16/18.

I am becoming more and more comfortable with me. I'd love to have a firmer stomache, and I wish my boobs didn't hit my knees as soon as I took my bra off, but other than that, i am who I am and I can work on those two things (and I would if i weren't so damned lazy ).

Thanks for that Mandy. You're an inspiration

pffft... i just call em how i see em.

perfection is an unattainable goal anyway.

celebrate your imperfections for they are what makes you you.... and be calm in the knowledge that i love you all, unconditionally..

''Beauty is in the Eye of the Beholder''

My mum told me that when i was young but its very true



We all find different things attractive thats the beautiful an complicated truth of human nature some people like 'this' and some people like 'that'

My way of thinking? If u dont want to get to know me cause i'm the wrong dress size......Oh well your loss!!

Would you really want a long term relationship with someone that could be that shallow?

Hugz xx

i agree wit red very nice pic hugz

Thanks Jegga



Thanks Red



Thanks decy

Very kind of u guys

Hugz xx

I've seen it all now. On a dating site, a man demanding that women do not contact him if they weigh more than 8 stone!!!!!!!!!!