i have met a laidy on this ! it went realy,realy well! but please be carefull, just like in life ! there will be all sorts of peopel out there!if you meet !meet in a well known place by you

Granted I am hardly the kinda person most people try to victimize, I have always found the net to be a superior way to date.

I have not met anyone from flirtbox yet but it's rather small an nto realy set up all that well yet so give it time to grown an learn an I am sure someday it will be a good place.

I met my former wife on another site and it went great until outside forces beyond our control forced us apart.

To me the net is a great place to meet a bunch o fpeople all at once an then wait for the cream to float to the top.

Thing about the net is you are forced to communicate. One thing I find very important is to be very very honest about your flaws. DOn't waste other peopels time tryin to put on a good show that ain't gonna last once they meet you.
When I meet someone new I tend to tell them what the last person or 3 complained about hehhe.

For women I suggest you just meet people with other folks around. Give out zero personal info and pay your own way untill actual romantic stuff has well under way. Draw good clear boundries but be pleasent and you will be perfectly fine.

If you have a long list of scary boyfriends, abusers and stalkers then skip dating alltogether and just hang with a shrink for a while instead cuz that's all about you not them

Meanwhile, would be nice if they had dates on these posts so I know if I am responding to a post from 1997 or not

DAve

well one point i hae to agree with is the messaging lark1 but i don't think the profiles are fakes! I did say before that the ratios are unequal! maybe a membership drive aimed at recruiting new lady members who are seeking a lucky chappy! also perhaps a little bit of a purge on the males who make a nuisance of themselves! I would imagine that caution is bred by the number of stupid messages that a lady probably gets?

I myself wouldnt type a message that would make me cringe later on???
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This guy is liscensed to chill, and thrill!!!!

Well I am happily all 'loved up' since meeting a guy of the net. It wasnt this site but a similar one. I have met guys before but over a period of 4/5 years there have only been 3 that had the 'wow' factor in the flesh.
It CAN happen girls!!! (and guys) The only thing that worries me is that it seems too good to be true and something is going to happen to spoil it....ever the optimist eh?
Jude

hope it all goes well for you jude

If only i had a chance but I'm jus a poor shy scotsman "Head bowed down" walking into the sunset all alone!

I've only ever met people off Faceparty, but never off a dating site. Only time will tell.