darkbucksman, that's some awesome advice!

If you're getting used by guys it's probably because you're coming off desperate or needy. Guys that are not that way (me for example) - and I hate to admit it - sometimes think it's funny to see how much we can get a girl to do for us before they put their foot down. I guess we're just testing you're walls, but if you are ALWAYS available, want to buy me things all the time, or whatever, the challenge is gone and it says really that you don't have enough respect for yourself to stand up for yourself. That's not attractive - if you tried to do that to me I'd let you know real quick that I'm not going to play that game, I'd expect you to do the same. But I don't know you that's just my take.