GOOD EVENING EVERY 1

i have 2 admit, i dont reply 2 some of the very few mails i get, i always look at the , wat they looking for section, and some say 3some, 1nite stands, decreet incounters, web fun ect ect, cause thats not wat im after, and it dont say any of them things on my profile, so 2 me they havnt taken the time 2 read my profile proper, or some mails from turkey , wonder y they would wana mail me !! weird lol

[quote="irishlgirl74"]i have 2 admit, i dont reply 2 some of the very few mails i get, i always look at the , wat they looking for section, and some say 3some, 1nite stands, decreet incounters, web fun ect ect,'

You know, there are some of us (quiet a few actually) on here that don't specify that!

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im sure there are, but i seem 2 have been attracting them

always the bad few ruining it for the nice masses

Can only be who you are. If your nice you can't be a prick and visa versa.

at least the responses in here are good and interesting, both god and coasttocoast had interesting points to make, this being why i started the question in the first place. like another person posting here i wondered myself if its a case of banging the old noggin against a brick wall, that can be bad on confidence levels when you are at least trying.
So far i have mailed some ladies and had a couple of replies, but to be honest one i saw more as an interesting person who could perhaps be a friend, lives too far away and is in a relationship, (no names she may read this and guess who she is and the rest you dont need to know) and the other from the chatroom who i mailed in error thinking she was another person.
I have used online chat sites for years now, since 98, excite and halsoft being two and i feel i am quite used to online chat, rarely fail to get a good response from the people i talked too and many remembered me even years later, so i cant be getting everything wrong. In fact i have many friends the world overfrom those chat sites, the differance here?, well, mail, it isnt really interactive and what you say in a mail can spell doom in one sentance because they then fail to reply. Perhaps i should have learnt better when i was younger to send mail to others rather than use more instant forms of communication (chat sites, im and telephone). Mail is less open to interactive laughter and fun perhaps but still, you have to use what is available. If anyone knows any good courses in letter writing please post the relevant web address

http://uk.askmen.com/dating/index.html

Its a good place to pick up hints and tips about this kind of thing-. Have learned a lot from this site-so i hope it helps you guys too.