I don't send many messages, but when I do I get a fair amount of responses just on the strength of my profile, I also get a few message me out of the blue, and that was when I didn't have a picture up. But most of the women are too far for me to travel.

I think a positive and witty profile is the key.

to be honest tho, being on here saying whats wrong with me, my profile, picture etc... just makes women think you have no confidence..

even if you dont have any confidence, dont show it.. be postitive and if you send mail and dont get a reply, then so be it.. just keep trying

trying to find out if your giving off the wrong signals buy asking on forums is surely helpfull? how can you be confident if you feel your doing the wrong things

but also it does so a lack of confidence. my do i have an image problem was so i could find out if my hair lenght realy was a problem, because some people say i should cut my hair and i dont want to be if its a major problem then i might end up doing so. e.g. for work reasons aswell

I think people should just be patient, fill the profile out as you want to, then wait

Obviously sent messages to people you like and then wait.

Internet dating is a waiting game.

i think alot of places prefer short haired guys, and plus alot of guys want to shave my head lol what a fetish to have. anyway not everyone is going to be attracted to you because everyones taste is different. and i think also people are shy so they dont mail u just view you and wait.