Geeks just happen to be the apple of my Pi

By the way, why is my avatar not showing?

10/10 to all those of you who lost the topic lol lol
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0/10 cos nobody has actually rated me or made any compliments.

10/10 dont want you to feel left out!
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0/10 as I don't go that way

YourManForever.........hello....~S~


I may be way out of line, here....and pardon the intrusion, if I am. But I've read several of your posts on here and I can give you a few hints as to why you may be having some difficulty picking up women.

Your nic, for starters indicates that you're putting yourself out there for anyone that would give you the time of day. That makes you look desperate. Desperation is a HUGE turn off for women. Or ......at least it is for me. I won't be so bold as to think I speak for other women.

Secondly, you are always knockin your looks or yourself in general. A sure sign of low self esteem. Another huge turn off for women.........er.....me. You'd get my pity, no doubt. But is pity what you really want?

Secondly, ...............or Thirdly, for those of you keeping count.......when you do critique yourself in a most loathesome manner, it takes on the tone of..........whining. Another big turn off for women/me.


It's obvious you are not happy with yourself. Even though you may say you are....or even think you are......reading between the lines, your posts tell a different tale. And you aren't happy with yourself first, no one else is going to be, either.

Personally, I find men who have some confidence in themselves to be much more pleasurable to be around. I'm not talking about arrogance, mind you. There is nothing worse than a guy who puts himself on a pedestal above all others. But just being happy with who you are......and not guage yourself based on what you think you should look like or be like.

But........that's just my opinion.


I'm far from being the author of the "gospels of dating".

Just relax, have some fun and be yourself. Maybe you're trying TOO hard. Things usually come around when you stop looking for them.





Damn this lil purple guy is still making me wet!

No offence taken Alabaster, in fact you are spot on. I do have low self esteem and it's due to many years of rejection. I've been called ugly more times than i can remember. I've had girls tell me to f*ck off for no other reason than i smiled at them. I'm not an unsociable person and get on well with all my workmates, etc but as soon as attraction comes into the equation, it seems as if they see me as Shrek.

It's always baffled me but to be honest, after 2yrs alone and only ever 4 relationships, i'm not expecting to meet anyone and i'm already planning my future alone. Yes, my confidence is THAT low.

I do understand where you're coming from. Just having gotten out of a "relationship" myself and being lied to in one relationship after another, I can honestly relate to how you're feeling.

This last one has left me with a bitter taste in my mouth as well as a conclusion that all men are pigs.....

Oh my.....did I just say that? (quickly opens super glue to seal the lid on pandora's box)


Anyways, I suppose it depends on why you feel you will spend the rest of your life alone. I myself had already come to that conclusion, as well as being quite content with it. I will spend the rest of my life alone. My expectations are far too high for the male gender, but it is my life so why should I settle for less than what I want? I'd much rather be alone and enjoy life with a close group of friends and family and doing the things I love to do, than to be in a relationship where I'm constantly having to wonder if I'm being lied to or cheated on. And besides.........being alone doesn't necessarily equate loneliness.

As far as what people say about you? That's something that's a bit foreign to me. I mean, I've had my share of insults thrown in my direction, make no mistake. However, peoples opinions of me fall short of being significant in my world because it does not revolve around them. They are simply opinions. They are like arrows shot at my heart, but fall at my feet. I refuse to bend down, pick them up, and stab myself with them.


Peace to you and good luck.

10/10 for being an outrageous flirt.

And 10/10 for vivizara for being able to see deeper than most others.