Blimey Daves involving horses now,..thats a bit kinky..lay of the German porn sites mate, giving you bad ideas.

How long are you in York for Kathy? I you're still there next time I visit my mate I can take you to a pub full of squaddies!

Ok, well if you're all finished discussing Kathy's man problems...?

This thread is starting to read like ' I'm a nice guy, but woman keep changing their minds and want 'bad boys', why?..

I think the problem is that, all self professed nice guys think that being a bad boy means beating woman up, cheating on them, having no respect etc..therefore keep saying, well i'm considerate, kind and caring, but woman dont like this..

woman do like these qualities obviously, but also (instinctively) want men to be spontanious, confident, someone who 'commands' respect of others and can stand up for and speak on their behalf when needed. to feel protected. And also not afraid to say 'no' to them also.

so i think the problem is, men need to change their perception of what a bad boy is..its not being a 'w#nker', its having the qualities of both camps, so to speak.. thats the attraction..

I probably havent explained myself well, and may even get lynched now..lol

I think he was joking.

Not a very funny joke, but there you go.