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21.08.2006, 20:48 quote
| eccles wrote: |
| the odd bookies for good measure |
Oh no. I can't go cos i'll be in there with my calculator working out the over round on the books and placing "value" bets. Having said that, i'm semi pro now.
21.08.2006, 20:54 quote
| kathy923 wrote: |
| i want something more serious than casual sex, but not ready to settle down yet. if onyl i could find a nice guy who wants a light, casual relationship but doesnt want 2 sleep with voery one esle!! i want some1 2 have a few dats now and again with, to curl up with and watch crap movies, go 2 restaurants and cook together, talk about crap and know that that person will always b there when i need a hug, but i dont want guys thinking i want 2 get married and start planning kids names.
xmas wasnt that long ago, maybe i should have put xmas was the last time any guy made me feel special about myself. |
I've seen lots of blokes make good comments to you on here, just because you want a relationship does not mean you want to settle down and have kids. I'm not going to say your young like everyone else o just did well you are
. See a guy you like go talk to him do all this meeting stuff you do in noisy clubs have a laugh fall over watch the blokes fall over. To be honest Kathy all you want is what everyone wants somebody to just be there for you through good times and bad. Thats why i say that sex is not everything in a relationship its just as nice at times to cuddle up and to be there for each other and I'll defie anyone to say its not as nice. Look you don't need a bloke to say you are special think it yourself
21.08.2006, 20:59 quote
| Aurora27uk wrote: |
| How long are you in York for Kathy? I you're still there next time I visit my mate I can take you to a pub full of squaddies! |
another week and a half, not to keen on squaddies on a whole, but if u know any nice ones feel free to introduce me!!
and to scotsdave; cheers for all the nice things u said, i taking it easy at the mo, if a nice guy comes along then great, but im not going to go crazy trying to find someone, lifes to short!!!
and on the special thing, its just nioce sometimes 2 have someone who u think is special tell me im special. think i need 2 call up some mates and tell them they're special...
21.08.2006, 21:13 quote
| kathy923 wrote: | ||
another week and a half, not to keen on squaddies on a whole, but if u know any nice ones feel free to introduce me!! and to scotsdave; cheers for all the nice things u said, i taking it easy at the mo, if a nice guy comes along then great, but im not going to go crazy trying to find someone, lifes to short!!! and on the special thing, its just nioce sometimes 2 have someone who u think is special tell me im special. think i need 2 call up some mates and tell them they're special... |
Please check PM!
22.08.2006, 17:48 quote
Hi Kathy, I work frequently with people in other countries. After speaking English for a while, it is a relief to them to be able to speak their own
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| language for a while. Please note the word while, 10 minutes okay. 15 stetching it. What you went through was just rude, and that ignorance wasn't going to disappear, over a relationship.
Sounds like he had some fairly strong views of the woman's place. Just ones he should keep to himself and his little cubicle away from the rest of the real world people. I went to Warsaw this year and most of the people were really nice. Hope the next one goes better. Ray Isn't this place to share your opinion??? |
Okay I am not sure why I am being rebuked here. My opinion is that the guy was rude, be cause he individually was rude not Polish people in general. Just tried to explain why people from other countries launch off into conversations in their own tongue without involving the English speakers. What did you find to take offense at?
Ray
22.08.2006, 18:21 quote
| swissrebel wrote: |
| Ok, well if you're all finished discussing Kathy's man problems...? |
I don't believe you've got any problums
22.08.2006, 18:47 quote
| kathy923 wrote: |
| i want something more serious than casual sex, but not ready to settle down yet. if onyl i could find a nice guy who wants a light, casual relationship but doesnt want 2 sleep with voery one esle!! i want some1 2 have a few dats now and again with, to curl up with and watch crap movies, go 2 restaurants and cook together, talk about crap and know that that person will always b there when i need a hug, but i dont want guys thinking i want 2 get married and start planning kids names.
xmas wasnt that long ago, maybe i should have put xmas was the last time any guy made me feel special about myself. |
I'm sure you could have that whenever you wanted if you went for the nice guys, which it doesn't always sound like you're going for, since you said they're all tw*ts who are after sex.
From what I've seen, the better looking the guy, the worse they can get away with treating women, and still have an endless supply waiting to fill in when things end.
I'd be overjoyed with a nice girl to go on a few dates with, curl up to watch a film with, hug them when they're down, and make them feel special about themselves, without wanting to sleep with anyone else, regardless of whether she slept with me or not.
Not being overwhelmed with offers sadly, which I think shows there's a difference between what women want, and what women go for.
22.08.2006, 18:51 quote
| kathy923 wrote: |
| i want something more serious than casual sex, but not ready to settle down yet. if onyl i could find a nice guy who wants a light, casual relationship but doesnt want 2 sleep with voery one esle!! i want some1 2 have a few dats now and again with, to curl up with and watch crap movies, go 2 restaurants and cook together, talk about crap and know that that person will always b there when i need a hug, but i dont want guys thinking i want 2 get married and start planning kids names.
xmas wasnt that long ago, maybe i should have put xmas was the last time any guy made me feel special about myself. |
Soo......
when you free?
Smile, it's ain't so bad, i have been single for over 2 years now, just love life and eventually something will come along.
22.08.2006, 19:03 quote
| UnusualEd wrote: |
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I'm sure you could have that whenever you wanted if you went for the nice guys, which it doesn't always sound like you're going for, since you said they're all tw*ts who are after sex. From what I've seen, the better looking the guy, the worse they can get away with treating women, and still have an endless supply waiting to fill in when things end. I'd be overjoyed with a nice girl to go on a few dates with, curl up to watch a film with, hug them when they're down, and make them feel special about themselves, without wanting to sleep with anyone else, regardless of whether she slept with me or not. Not being overwhelmed with offers sadly, which I think shows there's a difference between what women want, and what women go for. |
My man you have uncovered the greatest conspircy since the de vinchi code. What realley does it for woman, When the bad boys do them in, its then there chance to say they want a nice boy to cuddle ect. That is until the next bad boy comes along. Mate I have wanted to be just like you, nice tender caring considerate understanding and then the wife leaves me for the best mate, cause he was exciting!
Please don't take this as another of those posts such as why don't womon love me, or fancy me or want to sleep with me ect. I am secure and confident about who i am, I admit its taken a long long time and I'm sure there will be downs(last week was one) but I am who i am nothing more nothing less! I will survive
23.08.2006, 03:48 quote
| UnusualEd wrote: | ||
I'm sure you could have that whenever you wanted if you went for the nice guys, which it doesn't always sound like you're going for, since you said they're all tw*ts who are after sex. From what I've seen, the better looking the guy, the worse they can get away with treating women, and still have an endless supply waiting to fill in when things end. I'd be overjoyed with a nice girl to go on a few dates with, curl up to watch a film with, hug them when they're down, and make them feel special about themselves, without wanting to sleep with anyone else, regardless of whether she slept with me or not. Not being overwhelmed with offers sadly, which I think shows there's a difference between what women want, and what women go for. |
Some women do know what they want in a man and know what they will NOT go for. Not everyone thinks that its the look, to have the greatest trophy on the end of their arm. There are by far, more better qualities than dating the local player!
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23.08.2006, 04:50 quote
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Some women do know what they want in a man and know what they will NOT go for. Not everyone thinks that its the look, to have the greatest trophy on the end of their arm. There are by far, more better qualities than dating the local player! |
Don't want to start an arguement but do you think it is all depending on the age of the person!
23.08.2006, 05:36 quote
Dave, Ed and Trace. i agree with what you are saying! There are people out here who are just genuinly nice people! We can't change the game to suit us and it's a hard lesson that we are learning!
Now men (post divoece) can be equally guilty of excitement seeking as well, I know i did! I had my reasons for my behaviour and it was linked to a stressful marriage, an ex who wouldn't let go and a multitude of lesser reasons! It didn't change my inner self at all!
I've now reached that point where my exes control over me has ended (WHOOO HOOOOO!!!!) i would dearly love to settle down again BUT i am beginning to think that the tried mediums for dating are slowly being strangled by a few bad apples and alsoby people with unrealistic expetations! I'm not saying that we are all like that but i have reached that conclussion from reading the profiles etc!
What this does spawn is the question "DO PEOPLE HAVE UNREALISTIC EXPECTATIONS WHEN DATING?"
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23.08.2006, 10:55 quote
I surprised he didnt spend the night talking to his vodka bottle..polish peoples best matey is VODKA..lol!!!
23.08.2006, 14:01 quote
This thread is starting to read like ' I'm a nice guy, but woman keep changing their minds and want 'bad boys', why?..
I think the problem is that, all self professed nice guys think that being a bad boy means beating woman up, cheating on them, having no respect etc..therefore keep saying, well i'm considerate, kind and caring, but woman dont like this..
woman do like these qualities obviously, but also (instinctively) want men to be spontanious, confident, someone who 'commands' respect of others and can stand up for and speak on their behalf when needed. to feel protected. And also not afraid to say 'no' to them also.
so i think the problem is, men need to change their perception of what a bad boy is..its not being a 'w#nker', its having the qualities of both camps, so to speak.. thats the attraction..
I probably havent explained myself well, and may even get lynched now..lol
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