I have been a member here now for a while and I have noticed that a lot of women here are saying that they live here in the united states when in fact they do not what is up with that how are you suposed to find and american woman when you don't know who really is?.

not sure how that has happened as i thought there were safe guards in place to prevent this (sure i saw in another thread somewhere)..
Maybe some clever questioning which only an American would know the answer too? ..

Well, apparently Toby has a system in place that checks your IP address and corrects your location (country-wise anyway). I've not encountered the problem of non-americans pretending to be american, usually it's the problem of non-UK pretending to be from the UK, but ahh well.

I've noticed most people on the forums are British.