Okay so 2nd meet crashed and burned. My friend was having financial problems. I was always going to pay for the day, but its way too early to come across as a "Sugar Daddy".

And to be honest I have just finished a 60 hour week and wasn't devastated to have to get up early on Saturday morning. It would have been difficult to be that boyant lively person. Plus the dam..d special gift from America didn't arrive on time.

We did swap some messages today, so I don't think I have been virtually dumped. I am also aware that the phrase "I don't think" is a prelude to many guys saying "I didn't know".

I did message back being supportive and also project towards a next meet. But there's no point in meeting if one party is uncomfortable about their bills for the week.

So currently me real and virtual lives are parralelling, why does this have to be so hard?

Ray

its just life Ray ..... whats for you wont go by you x

Hi Cheeky, thanks for that. For once I feel worse after writing a post. (and nothing to do with your reply) Its more like writing is making me face up to this is another relationship that won't fly. Could someone please stop reality, I would like to get off.

Ray

Okay, my apologies for that. Whate ver happens with this relationship, I will take it as it comes. And if that means finding a new relationship, then so be it.

Cheers

Ray