rest assured Daniel there are real people on here. I myself met a girl on here. It didn't work out as a relationship but we are great friends because of how much we have in common. We both went into it looking for a relationship, but in the end we ended up finding a great friend in each other. I think that most women on here are looking for someone who can make them laugh and not just a quick shag. There are a lot of shallow men on here looking for a quick shag and nothing else. So when women receive a message from you they automatically think you are just wanting a quickie. I think it is just a case of reassuring the women who you want to chat to that you want to get to know the real them.

hi i am new here on this site, and saw your profile and wondered whether you would like to chat?i have found you on face book (i am under coralie parker).
from what i saw on your profile, i think you are a sweet guy. would really like to get to know you.
hope to speak to you soon
love *mousey*babes*

As a girl I'd like to say that it rather disappoints me if a bloke messages me with pick up lines or just explaining how sexy/gorgeous or blah blah blah I am or simply what exactly he wants from me. Its a complete turn off at the first attempt of messaging except ofcourse if you're up for only nice fun. No offence!!!

dont worry bout getting lost amongst the sausage fest mate - there are some nice lassies on here who you can connect with its just a case of finding them in amongst the timewasters - GOOD LUCK !