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14.01.2010, 09:49 quote

handsel
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bbones wrote:
so yea ..its startin to look like women dont really know what their average is from personal experiences. i think im right. right?

You are right! I think it's coz most women discover (early on) that saying, 'Just wait there a minute... I want to get my measuring tape,' tends to spoil the moment! Laughing
But some persist... They get the protractor and measure the angle... Razz
But the bit I hate the most...
Is when they bring out a pad and flip over page after page going, 'Oh, My!', 'Jeezzz!' 'Ha Ha' etc and then say, 'Just put it on this plain A4 sheet and draw around it, will you?'
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14.01.2010, 11:16 quote

mattdesign
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I think it's a pointless question, because if size doesn't matter then you need to focus on other aspects, if it does then what are you supposed to do? Get Surgery? No, you're better off focussing on other aspects.

And to the whole 'motion in the ocean' comment, regardless of size and supposed skills, you need to figure out what feels good for your partner so every new partner means a learning experience to get the most out of love with them. That goes for men and women as women can't put the blame on guys just saying 'oh he's rubbish in bed', if he's interested you enough to get to the bedroom with you then you owe him the honesty of helping you feel good so you can both enjoy getting to know each other more intimately.

 

28.01.2010, 03:41 quote

infectiousvirus

well size matters for sure. Anything more than 6' is cool with me. Skills do count but It just cannot overlap the importance of size for what I feel, it'd be dramatic to say 'are you in yet'? or 'Is that your finger?' or 'oh boy, can't feel you.' (recall the jokes)

 

28.01.2010, 04:03 quote

whitezombie69

infectiousvirus wrote:
well size matters for sure. Anything more than 6' is cool with me. Skills do count but It just cannot overlap the importance of size for what I feel, it'd be dramatic to say 'are you in yet'? or 'Is that your finger?' or 'oh boy, can't feel you.' (recall the jokes)


A second belly button? Laughing

I feel kinda bad for any dude who has less than 6". You shoulda done as your mothers said and eaten your greens.

Some girls say 'it ain't the nail it's the power behind the hammer.' Well this ones to all the dudes with l'il cocktail sausages and a big arse - there are some stupid girls out there who lie through there gnashers to make you feel better about your sorry selves. Make them pay. Dearly.

Hehe! Just kidding. Now off you pop to bed coz Holly Willoughby is on after Jeremy Kyle and you know that if you scrunch yer mince pies up real tight and wish upon a star, albeit it a completely different parallel, she could be yours to do all kinds of unpleasantries with, and you can just lie back on yer fat buttox and think of a parallel England while she goes crazywild on yer pappy l'il John Thomas.

Dream sweet x

 

28.01.2010, 04:17 quote

adriennejp
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kims2009 wrote:

Would it last?Shall I move any further?


I guess the real decision lies on whether you see your relationship with him as a sacrifice. If size = pleasure for you and this man cannot produce something that is equal in value, would that sacrifice create resentment?

There is also the other half of the coin; is this a growing moment in your life? The chance for being truly happy overshadowed by the possibility that you will not be sexually satisfied.

I dont have any answers for you. I am not sure what I would do in that situation, but I know what I would be honestly asking myself.

Good luck my dear. Heart

 

28.01.2010, 09:25 quote

bliss23

mattdesign wrote:
I think it's a pointless question, because if size doesn't matter then you need to focus on other aspects, if it does then what are you supposed to do? Get Surgery? No, you're better off focussing on other aspects.

And to the whole 'motion in the ocean' comment, regardless of size and supposed skills, you need to figure out what feels good for your partner so every new partner means a learning experience to get the most out of love with them. That goes for men and women as women can't put the blame on guys just saying 'oh he's rubbish in bed', if he's interested you enough to get to the bedroom with you then you owe him the honesty of helping you feel good so you can both enjoy getting to know each other more intimately.


This is not bad... Perhaps the first well expressed point on size not mattering.

 

28.01.2010, 10:02 quote

kovacs

Of course it matters. Or at least it does to some people.

I don't see why this subject is skirted around or excuses made (on both sides). Its only a physical attribute after all.

You could still be an amazing lover even if you were at the back of the queue when they were giving out the baby's arms, but sometimes its all about the brain.

Women shouldn't be afraid of just coming out and saying they want a good filling up, and men who aren't so well blessed should just accept the fact, up their game, learn some new tricks and find a woman who isn't too fussed if you can't tuck it into your sock.

 

28.01.2010, 10:33 quote

bliss23

Omg, it's, it's... What's his name? Laughing Jack?

 

28.01.2010, 10:44 quote

jeggae
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I think it depends on the lady, I've known women who dont really want much more the 6 inches.

Maybe visibly a bigger one looks better, but I've know some who say more the 6 inches hurt..and I've known some tight women and it can be painful Surprised They dont always like it if you tell them why you want lube Surprised

 

28.01.2010, 15:47 quote

kovacs

Well yeah, but thats women all over; biting off more than they can chew. Just like the statements like 'Oh I want a man who can marry me hard for hours non-stop', yet most can only take a sustained kidney-poking for about 20-30 minutes (in my experience at least).

I do think that size is a cosmetic thing, maybe even an ego thing (a trophy brain). Funny though, you never hear the male angle on this. Lets face it there are some ugly fanjitas out there. I'm not just talking about general hygiene or if theres a bear trapper's hat down there. Some are just downright unappetizing.

Maybe thats one for another thread; 'Will It Whistle If I Blow Across The Top Of It'.

 

28.01.2010, 16:05 quote

jeggae
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kovacs wrote:


I do think that size is a cosmetic thing, maybe even an ego thing (a trophy brain). Funny though, you never hear the male angle on this.


Most men laugh off criticism and abuse on these sites. If men critcise women they have some sort of problem and must be a women hater. Especially men that are first time posters.

Some women laugh because they like putting men down, most men laugh because they think it pleases the women


kovacs wrote:


Lets face it there are some ugly fanjitas out there. I'm not just talking about general hygiene or if theres a bear trapper's hat down there. Some are just downright unappetizing.

Maybe thats one for another thread; 'Will It Whistle If I Blow Across The Top Of It'.


I probably couldn't start a thread like that, because of reasons about. But some probably could.

 

28.01.2010, 16:30 quote

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Can't see the attraction with pussys whether they meow or whistle..... I'm just pleased that men do Embarassed
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27.05.2011, 02:53 quote

scriptwriter

8.5" in length and 6-7" in girth at the base is classed as average nowadays. Ask any equestrian...!!!!!!! And the key correlations being: if given the choice of two men who are identical in every way - except one has a bigger schlong than the other - 99.9% of women will pick the guy with the extra meat (!) in the same way as a guy - given the choice of 2 women who are identical in every way (except for bazookas) - will pick the femme with the extra-sized whalebone crackers! Weird... as guys with a small pecker usually are far more driven to succeed in earning cash and driving big cars, and women who are pert and perky usually look really good in school uniforms and swishing a riding crop! They also tend to scream more and are easier to lift around the supermarket disabled toilet in lunch breaks!

 
 
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