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15.12.2009, 20:40 quote

kims2009
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Now ..I have a dilemma.Everyone called me all the name under the sun because I usually dare to be honest about the fact that I preffer good looking men and if the chemistry is not there then I won't get involved,no matter how nice the person is.
I have been communicating with someone for a while and it is really strange,he is the nicest person on Earth but recently descovered that his private part is quite small(never happened to me before..lol) and in bed he was a bit of a dissapointment.Now,I really really like him..but...I like my sexual life as well?!
Would it last?Shall I move any further?He makes me feel so good otherwise... Sad Sad

 

15.12.2009, 20:50 quote

missjb
missjb Joined: 09 May 2009 Posts: 1331 Location: United Kingdom, England, Kent
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Ha ha ha!! im sorry but this has made me crack up! lol

Well alot will say its not the size its what they can do with it, which is kinda true, you can shag a bloke with a huge dick and it can be shit and over and done with it before you have a hair out of place! (i know)
but you can shag a bloke with a small cock and not feel a single thing (i know!) I dont think the size of it really makes a huge problem as long as they know how to work it, all cos a bloke has a big cock dont mean they are going to be any good does it?

But if I had a preference i personally would go for the larger end of the scale but who knows what they were doing!

If the sex is no good and you have given it a bash several times then id do one, yes a relationship isnt just about sex but it is a big thing and if it gets to the point where your not enjoying it at all then say your goodbyes cos you will no doubt end up on the look out for affair in the end!

Im curious as to what the men will have to say about this!

 

15.12.2009, 23:25 quote

gj458

sounds like that song from lily allen tbh.

And if he makes you feel good otherwise..try telling him what YOU like in bed..and he'll do it, trust me. Send him a text saying " i want you to ... and then ..." and watch that night, he'll come to yours and do exactly what you want. if he isnt hitting the right spots, direct him or get in to a position where you can hit them yourself.. shit, good things shouldnt be let go because of sex..and after all if you're as close as you say you are, then you should be comfortable saying what you do and dont like.

if its still shit, make him eat you till you cum then after it dont matter does it?

 

16.12.2009, 00:39 quote

whysoserious1983
whysoserious1983 Joined: 31 Mar 2009 Posts: 1749 Location: United Kingdom, England, Essex
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I was going to make the same points as gj. Does it all have to be about the intercourse? Surely there are other areas of the bedroom arts where he can make up for his small size?
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16.12.2009, 00:42 quote

martintucker
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always cracks me up when this topic "pops up" so to speak - who is to say the girl posting isnt the problem?

 

16.12.2009, 10:16 quote

missjb
missjb Joined: 09 May 2009 Posts: 1331 Location: United Kingdom, England, Kent
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i dont think its about the size, sometimes theres is literally no chemistry in the bedroom, regardless of what you try and no matter how well you get on if there is no chemistry and you have tried different things then how can it work in the long time?

 

16.12.2009, 10:25 quote

oakman
oakman Joined: 07 Jun 2009 Posts: 953 Location: United Kingdom, England, London
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Take a leaf out of Starbucks book and refer to member size by stupid names like Piccolo, Grande, Mucho Grande and Venti. We won't have a clue what you are on about and our feelings won't be hurt.

Yours sincerely,

The Minute Man.

 

16.12.2009, 10:43 quote

handsel
handsel Joined: 18 Mar 2009 Posts: 1214 Location: United Kingdom, England, West Midlands
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The Minute Man!!!
Just the word: combining size and time!

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16.12.2009, 10:46 quote

tryst46

I've never compared myself in size to others, I don't feel that it's necessary. All I can say is that I've never had any complaints. Quite a few one night stands I had when I was younger came back for more later so I must have been doing something right.

I tend to agree with Martintucker on this though, why is it always the man who gets the blame when things don't work out in the bedroom. I've known women to do weird or crazy things during sex and some things are enough to put even the most liberal minded guys off, some don't even realise they are doing it. I've had one rake my back so bad that it almost soaked a towel in blood before it stopped - instant cool down.

 

16.12.2009, 11:00 quote

missjb
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I want a man that can last 57 minutes non stop..... Wink

 

16.12.2009, 11:12 quote

tryst46

missjb wrote:
I want a man that can last 57 minutes non stop..... Wink

You're just after a quickie then?

 

16.12.2009, 11:16 quote

missjb
missjb Joined: 09 May 2009 Posts: 1331 Location: United Kingdom, England, Kent
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tryst46 wrote:
missjb wrote:
I want a man that can last 57 minutes non stop..... Wink

You're just after a quickie then?


ha ha! Oh thats not including the four play! Four play should last twice as long as the sex! Laughing

 

16.12.2009, 12:48 quote

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get a dildo hun, or any sex toys, sex toys are there to enhance your sex life! So what if he has a little penis, look beyond that, he can still satisfy you, if anything, even more!
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16.12.2009, 14:36 quote

Bliss23
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This topic is just...

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Well... It's just weird. All the comments are weird.

Oakman's comment was going somewhere, but he lost himself on the way. Liked the idea though. Laughing Laughing Laughing

I wonder if the idea of doing that to men has anything to do with me always ordering a Venti with extra espresso, extra sprinkles, extra everything. LOL However there is such thing as too much so if it's evening I will just order it with two shots of decaf and one regular. And someone once told me that that's just like the two regular shots, but it's not, you fools ! The taste is completely different. LOL

Anyway, sorry for blabbin'.

As for the girl who posted this topic... I agree with telling him how to please you and ask him how he likes to be pleased back. If it doesn't work then either... Guess it just depends on how much sex matters for ya. You can always keep him as a good friend with smooches and carry on. LOL

I don't think anyone should stay in a relationship in which they have a HUGE (ewps, small lol) problem.

I for one would rather be alone than be in something I don't feel good in, just because he gives me flowers and opens the door. LOL

However I do think that sometimes having the hots for/loving the person can make up for many, many things. But that's once every blue moon. LOL
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16.12.2009, 16:31 quote

gj458

tryst46 wrote:
missjb wrote:
I want a man that can last 57 minutes non stop..... Wink

You're just after a quickie then?


non-stop never counts foreplay.. and if 57 minutes is a quickie for you, go you stallion!

 
 
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