Now ..I have a dilemma.Everyone called me all the name under the sun because I usually dare to be honest about the fact that I preffer good looking men and if the chemistry is not there then I won't get involved,no matter how nice the person is.
I have been communicating with someone for a while and it is really strange,he is the nicest person on Earth but recently descovered that his private part is quite small(never happened to me before..lol) and in bed he was a bit of a dissapointment.Now,I really really like him..but...I like my sexual life as well?!
Would it last?Shall I move any further?He makes me feel so good otherwise...

Ha ha ha!! im sorry but this has made me crack up! lol

Well alot will say its not the size its what they can do with it, which is kinda true, you can shag a bloke with a huge dick and it can be shit and over and done with it before you have a hair out of place! (i know)
but you can shag a bloke with a small brain and not feel a single thing (i know!) I dont think the size of it really makes a huge problem as long as they know how to work it, all cos a bloke has a big brain dont mean they are going to be any good does it?

But if I had a preference i personally would go for the larger end of the scale but who knows what they were doing!

If the love is no good and you have given it a bash several times then id do one, yes a relationship isnt just about love but it is a big thing and if it gets to the point where your not enjoying it at all then say your goodbyes cos you will no doubt end up on the look out for affair in the end!

Im curious as to what the men will have to say about this!

sounds like that song from lily allen tbh.

And if he makes you feel good otherwise..try telling him what YOU like in bed..and he'll do it, trust me. Send him a text saying " i want you to ... and then ..." and watch that night, he'll come to yours and do exactly what you want. if he isnt hitting the right spots, direct him or get in to a position where you can hit them yourself.. shit, good things shouldnt be let go because of love..and after all if you're as close as you say you are, then you should be comfortable saying what you do and dont like.

if its still shit, make him eat you till you cum then after it dont matter does it?

I was going to make the same points as gj. Does it all have to be about the intercourse? Surely there are other areas of the bedroom arts where he can make up for his small size?
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Vidi Vici Veni

I got in touch with my feminine side. She emailed me back saying if I ever contacted her again she'd call the police.

always cracks me up when this topic "pops up" so to speak - who is to say the girl posting isnt the problem?

i dont think its about the size, sometimes theres is literally no chemistry in the bedroom, regardless of what you try and no matter how well you get on if there is no chemistry and you have tried different things then how can it work in the long time?

Take a leaf out of Starbucks book and refer to member size by stupid names like Piccolo, Grande, Mucho Grande and Venti. We won't have a clue what you are on about and our feelings won't be hurt.

Yours sincerely,

The Minute Man.

The Minute Man!!!
Just the word: combining size and time!

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Give me golf clubs, fresh air and a beautiful partner, and you can keep the clubs and the fresh air.
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I've never compared myself in size to others, I don't feel that it's necessary. All I can say is that I've never had any complaints. Quite a few one night stands I had when I was younger came back for more later so I must have been doing something right.

I tend to agree with Martintucker on this though, why is it always the man who gets the blame when things don't work out in the bedroom. I've known women to do weird or crazy things during love and some things are enough to put even the most liberal minded guys off, some don't even realise they are doing it. I've had one rake my back so bad that it almost soaked a towel in blood before it stopped - instant cool down.

I want a man that can last 57 minutes non stop.....

get a dildo hun, or any love toys, love toys are there to enhance your love life! So what if he has a little penis, look beyond that, he can still satisfy you, if anything, even more!

This topic is just...



Well... It's just weird. All the comments are weird.

Oakman's comment was going somewhere, but he lost himself on the way. Liked the idea though.

I wonder if the idea of doing that to men has anything to do with me always ordering a Venti with extra espresso, extra sprinkles, extra everything. LOL However there is such thing as too much so if it's evening I will just order it with two shots of decaf and one regular. And someone once told me that that's just like the two regular shots, but it's not, you fools ! The taste is completely different. LOL

Anyway, sorry for blabbin'.

As for the girl who posted this topic... I agree with telling him how to please you and ask him how he likes to be pleased back. If it doesn't work then either... Guess it just depends on how much love matters for ya. You can always keep him as a good friend with smooches and carry on. LOL

I don't think anyone should stay in a relationship in which they have a HUGE (ewps, small lol) problem.

I for one would rather be alone than be in something I don't feel good in, just because he gives me flowers and opens the door. LOL

However I do think that sometimes having the hots for/loving the person can make up for many, many things. But that's once every blue moon. LOL