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07.09.2006, 16:20 quote

Anonymous

So..back on topic.

Size isn't important to me.

 

07.09.2006, 16:23 quote

Anomander
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flowerangelaura wrote:
FoxyHan wrote:
yea what can u do when its true




I had to put that song on when I read that.


Rad! I'm listening to it myself right now....

 

07.09.2006, 16:25 quote

Anonymous

Anomander wrote:
Rad! I'm listening to it myself right now....


Good song choice..!

 

07.09.2006, 16:30 quote

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flowerangelaura wrote:
So..back on topic.

Size isn't important to me.


Within Limits, size doesn't matter too much to me either, in fact I'm not too keen on really slim women....

 

07.09.2006, 17:46 quote

Anonymous

If women go for tall guys, with dark hair who are on a good income, then where are all my private messages!

 

07.09.2006, 19:56 quote

Anonymous

Tinyuk wrote:
If women go for tall guys, with dark hair who are on a good income, then where are all my private messages!


I'm still waiting for the reply Wink

 

07.09.2006, 20:05 quote

Anonymous

So am i lol!

 

07.09.2006, 20:07 quote

Anonymous

I'm a yoyo dieter, put it on and lose it, at the moment I'm over weight...and I do have more women attracted to me when I'm slim, there's no doubt about that.
I wouldn't worry about these women that are abusive to you though, its a lucky escape for you by the sounds of it.

 

07.09.2006, 20:54 quote

Anonymous

Trundo wrote:
I was reading this post that a female member posted about - http://www.flirtbox.net/dating/do-men-only-go-4-the-slim-women-.html

So my question is frm the male perspective, I am a big lad myself and find it VERY hard to approach women in fear of rejection which happens 99% of the time, I also find when looking on dating sites that I go for the profiles of the fuller figured woman ( I do like big girls tho ) but when I do reply to lets say the smaller figured woman I get hate replies like "Why did you even bother trying you Fat f**k", so one more question does being a fat man mean I should be single because noone can accept me with my big frame :/, thanks for any replies and or light you may be able to shine on the situation.


NO!! IT DOESNT MEAN YOU SHOULD BE SINGLE!!! There will be someone special out there for you hun and that person will love you for being you...Theres far to many rude people in this world, just ignore them, as long as your happy with yourself, who cares what they think.

 

07.09.2006, 23:08 quote

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Sadly, Trundo, that's the society we live in now. Very few people are polite any more. I had similar rejections all the time a few years ago. I'm not over weight but was bald in my early 20's, don't tan much (or want to), and not the six packed, chiselled-chin type of bloke modern women seem to want. I'd regularly get told to F off just because i smiled or said Hi. 5 mins later, some other guy would say Hi and the girl would be all over him. It's kinda sickening, very depressing and a major kick in the nuts. When it happens regularly, you just lose all self confidence.

People who are shallow like that are just as unhappy as guys like us because they get messed around more. Think of rejection as a lucky escape - do you really want to be with someone who's so shallow, materialistic and rude? Sit back and wait patiently. Be yourself and don't go looking for love. It'll find you when it's ready....

 

08.09.2006, 05:58 quote

Anonymous

YourManForever wrote:
Sadly, Trundo, that's the society we live in now. Very few people are polite any more. I had similar rejections all the time a few years ago. I'm not over weight but was bald in my early 20's, don't tan much (or want to), and not the six packed, chiselled-chin type of bloke modern women seem to want. I'd regularly get told to F off just because i smiled or said Hi. 5 mins later, some other guy would say Hi and the girl would be all over him. It's kinda sickening, very depressing and a major kick in the nuts. When it happens regularly, you just lose all self confidence.

People who are shallow like that are just as unhappy as guys like us because they get messed around more. Think of rejection as a lucky escape - do you really want to be with someone who's so shallow, materialistic and rude? Sit back and wait patiently. Be yourself and don't go looking for love. It'll find you when it's ready....


That's a lovely way of putting it YMF and so true. If you try to be somebody you're not, it'll get you down in the end. There's only so long anyone can do that (5 years in my case Smile )

 

08.09.2006, 06:42 quote

scotincornwall

Tiny - I expect you DO get responses.

Another important stat is that far more women WAIT for a message rather than sending them out.

But when you do contact them, you should get more responses than short, balding blokes.

 

11.09.2006, 05:23 quote

Trundo
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Bump, does anyone else have an opinion on this subject? :/

 

11.09.2006, 05:35 quote

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Trundo wrote:
Bump, does anyone else have an opinion on this subject? :/

Erm.....didn't you read all the replies??


ScotInCornwall wrote:
you should get more responses than short, balding blokes.

Thank god i'm 6ft!

 

11.09.2006, 05:35 quote

Anonymous

Trundo wrote:
Bump, does anyone else have an opinion on this subject? :/


If you go into some of the other forums Trundo, you'll find similar subjects frequently crop up. Most of us in here seem to be average human beings with our own insecurities about such things as size, height, looks etc. And the average person usually falls for an average person.

Stand tall and proud and make a girl laugh enough whilst allowing her to see that there can also be a more serious, sensitive side and any woman worth knowing really will see beyond the exterior.

You will find someone Trundo. Personality can be enough and some of us do like a man with something to grab. Wink

 
 
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