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27.06.2007, 08:20 quote

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haha i edited that part of the comment out as it wasn't a good alibi lol but thanks for the comment Razz

 

27.06.2007, 08:21 quote

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Razz

 

27.06.2007, 17:01 quote

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simplyme79 wrote:
Honest eyes definition: Our eyes are the gateway to our souls


Gawd I have used that statement many a time. It's so true. Eyes are one of the first things that attracts me to someone. I think you can definately tell a lot about someone from their eyes and they way that the react to things

 

27.06.2007, 18:18 quote

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Cazzabee wrote:
simplyme79 wrote:
Honest eyes definition: Our eyes are the gateway to our souls


Gawd I have used that statement many a time. It's so true. Eyes are one of the first things that attracts me to someone. I think you can definately tell a lot about someone from their eyes and they way that the react to things


wat if they are wearing sun glasses Embarassed Rolling Eyes
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27.06.2007, 18:44 quote

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people say that that makes them mysterious i think thats why they use them in poker alot so they cant read the person.
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27.06.2007, 23:19 quote

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elitious wrote:
Cazzabee wrote:
simplyme79 wrote:
Honest eyes definition: Our eyes are the gateway to our souls


Gawd I have used that statement many a time. It's so true. Eyes are one of the first things that attracts me to someone. I think you can definately tell a lot about someone from their eyes and they way that the react to things


wat if they are wearing sun glasses Embarassed Rolling Eyes


Would you trust the blues brothers? LOL sun glasses are for the sun not for speakng to people

 

28.06.2007, 07:48 quote

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ARGHHHHHH That has to be one of my pet hates, speaking to somone with sun glasses on, especially when all you can see is yourself in them.

I do agree with the others who have said that you can tell a lot from people from their eyes.

 

28.06.2007, 07:51 quote

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then i would say i should just give up. bcoz my eyes makes me look i m bad to the bones Embarassed
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28.06.2007, 08:12 quote

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elitious wrote:
then i would say i should just give up. bcoz my eyes makes me look i m bad to the bones Embarassed


Dont worry about it..some women are attracted to men that look baaad Wink

 

28.06.2007, 14:27 quote

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Curse! my glasses for obstructing view from my pretty eyes

 

01.02.2008, 09:55 quote

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chikhai wrote:
In a word 'no'. For all the claims to the contrary women are just as shallow (if not more so) than men when it comes to looks. Sure, they talk the talk and say that 'personality' is all important. But when it comes to the crunch if you haven't got the looks to match you're shit out of luck.

It's simple really. A woman can have a bit of meat on her bones and still be sexy. It's all part of femininity. Larger women are always synonymous with fertility, so like it or not, as a man theres always something buried deep in your psyche that will mean that a woman who looks like a woman will always be attractive, no matter what general consensus may say. The reverse can't be said of a man.

Masculinity is all about strength. Whether thats strength as a provider or bare knuckle fighting a mammoth it doesn't matter. It's strength not pork that matters. At no point in human history has a fat man been seen as sexy. He may have been viewed as affluent or decadent (which can be attractive attributes), but never sexually attractive. Carrying a spare tyre is not a part of the male psyche, and any bloke who says he's happy with his size if he is carrying a few pounds is in denial. End of. We're just not wired that way. So it only follows that if lard is a negative attribute then it's unattractive to women.

It's always been claimed that looks only get you so far, but from my experience this is complete bollocks. Looks are extremely important. If someone doesn't find you physically attractive you'd have to be one charming motherfucker to win them over, and herein lies the problem; most women have already made their mind up in the first few seconds. Personality isn't something that grabs you straight away, so if they've already judged you on your looks then sorry, you're shafted. If anything, when a woman does find you attractive based on solely your personality then you can almost certainly guarantee shes making allowances with herself, and the first guy who shows up who fits the bill in the looks department will be walking away with her at some point in the near future.

I would be extremely surprised if any woman here admitted to finding fat men attractive. Remember we're talking about 'fat' here, not his personality.


That's it in a nutshell. All this takes place in the span of a few seconds. After that it has been already determined if you are a suitable mate based on physical attributes. It's cruel, i know, but nature has designed us this way for a reason.

 

01.02.2008, 21:27 quote

Anonymous

Seeing how the UK is now officially an Obese Nation I would say the answer is Yes women do like fat blokes!!??

Personally, give me a man with a bit of meat on his bones any time.
I am not in the least interested in skeletal emos, nor am I attracted to the Arnies of this world. All that OTT muscle, yuck!

But not seriously overweight cuz that just shouts "I dont take care of myself".

 
 
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